Hey guys,

i really need some advice.

a while ago i was on a dating website. nothing ever came of it, a few emails here and there but nothing of major note. there was one girl who i had exchanged numbers with but time had passed and i assumed nothing would come of it.

anyway just the other day she text me out the blue. we had some text chat (nothing serious, she doesnt give much away), and she asked me to add her on facebook. I added her, and she is absolutely STUNNING.

so i hit her with a couple of negs and she responds well. i hit her with another one and it just goes wrong, and i mean WRONG. she said we should just leave it alone and not meet. so i turned it around, played nice and she's now asked me to meet her tomorrow night.

HOW DO I PLAY IT? i need some first date game. it's been a long time since i did this and really need all the advice i can get my hands on. i dont know if i totally lowered my value by somewhat "grovelling" to explain my heavy neg, so how do i rescue it tomorrow as i feel that i have had to almost convince her its a good idea to meet up.

hope you can help, bear in mind she's amazingly good looking and im already a bit concerned that i have no chance!

First of all get out of the mind set that you have no chance! She's asked to meet up so there is atleast something there right!

Just act natural and confident and remember good body posture. Don't worry too much about her getting cut at you for whatever reason, cause it'll just keep playing on your mind. Neg her and throw a few compliments in there .. remember the push and pull theory

There's not really much you need to do for a first date.. Just confidence and make sure you have fun!

There's a brilliant scene in "The Departed" im not sure if you've heard of the movie but it's excellent!

In the scene Matt Damon is having dinner with a psychiatrist..

I'm not sure how to post YouTube vids so i hope that works..

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGGSvhN8SaY[/youtube]

this is the sorta stuff you want to be doing!

Let us know how you go!

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