So this girl has been texting me alot recently, saying how see thinks I'm cute and stuff like that. I can tell that shes DTF, but she's not the type of girl I would ever think of dating although I would like to have sex with her. My question is, how do I get her in bed and then let her know that I dont want anything more than that?

Wrong sequence. First let her know that you don't want anything more than sex and then get her in bed.

Thanks for the advice! I dont know why I didn't think of that in the first place. I just hope she doesn't get turned off when I tell her.

Why? Women love sex. Just avoid making her feel like a slut because this will turn her off for sure. But whatever the result is you should be honest with a girl. Otherwise you will hurt her feelings and this is not a nice way to treat anyone... In my opinion the best way is to get her turned on, stop for a second, tell her what your expectations are and how you feel about it and then if she's ok with that you can continue. If you are honest, direct and don't make a big deal of it she will probably be happy to have sex with you.

I am in the same boat happyguy, after learning and getting ready to try all this knowledge out on HB'S there is no way that i would want to start a relationship right now. Can someone give a routine slash scenario for this. Here's what i would say....

eg. Chest Rockwell: (kind of firing a chic up a bit) I just wanted to be upfront with you before this goes any further. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. if your not ok with that then i understand.

HB: i'm not either, why dont you tie me up and we'll go from there

Chest Rockwell: that sounds delightful hahahha

Now here is another situation that i have another question about

Chest Rockwell: (kind of firing a chic up a bit) I just wanted to be upfront with you before this goes any further. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. if your not ok with that then i understand.

HB: i'm not ok with that i want a relationship (which to me equals a shit test)

Chest Rockwell: (freeeeeeeze out!! & check email) try again in 3-5 mins.

would this work or is there something that i should say if she says im not ok with that?

um, really don't make a big deal about it. if she wants to continue that discussion thread, she will, no need for you to lead.

and like i'm sure you know, by NO MEANS try to logically explain why your belief is better.

it'd probably be better to lead her in with sexual framing techniques so that subconciously she knows she doesn't need a relationship, and that all she really wants is a night (or day?) of fun.

Captain Jack has a good post about sexual framing on his site http://betheseducer.com

look down the right and find the "how to unleash her inner sex fiend" or soemthing along those lines.

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