hey all, before i begin i just wanna tell you were im at. i have been reading on theory for around 3 months and have haid some feild eperience in that time, i have read up on canned and natural theory. i am leanin towards natural a bit more but im going to mix it up with some routines as i think alot of them are fun to do.

i know the game itself has done alot of good for me, its helped me with my confidence and also improved how much i socialize in general. but recently its been stressing me out a bit.

for example last night i was in a club, having a good time with some friends, and a girl comes up to me whom ive had feelings for fr a long time, and begins telling me about her new boyfriend and how ther officialy dating now, and when i saw the guy, who was even getting jelous of the fact i was talking to her, i didnt no how he did it. then i looked around the club, i saw a few faces i remember back from school, people who used to make my life hell, and thy found picking up so easy and it came naturaly. alot of me feels that if it wernt for them id be the same, i get told quite alot that im attractive, hell even last night i got stopped by a lesbian cuz she thought i was so handsome i couldnt have been straight haha so i know its down to my confidence that im having issues. i just got pissed off that i was busting my ass off trying to get back a peice of myself that they took away, and no matter how hard i tried im still having trouble escalating and closing.

any advice on getting attraction, escalating and closing would be much arrpreciated thanks

All the advice you will ever need is on this forum just hang around and ask some questions

There's a myriad of things you can do to escalate and close. But baby steps seem to be in order...


so my only real advice is this: hold hands, place your hands on a girl's waist, arm and arm her, ask if she'd like to kiss you etc.

If you feel capable (attractive enough) to perform small displays of physical contact such as those, then just go for it.


You just need to fall off the horse a few times before you get your riding legs I suppose.

_________________
"The whole world will step aside for a man who knows where he's going."

cheera for the advice guys i was in a pretty bad mood when i posted this haha i think my main problem is not noticing things, which probably comes from the rush of sargin a high risk set but only way ill get over it is to do it more often and just get comfotable with it