Ok, I know what you're going to say: "You have oneitis, go fuck 10 other girls, go out sarging and meet other people" but hear me out real quick.

This girl is my "best friend" (a loose term for sure) & we've been real close for a couple years now.

So I went out with her yesterday in Sausalito- ate lunch, walked around, etc. I know you'll berate me for this, but she was pretty friggin' obvious yesterday, or as obvious as girls can get. Signs that she was "into me" included the semi-nervous playing with her hair, she would start up the conversation if it ever died down, playfully touching me, taking pics w/ me (I didn't intend to pull that Mystery routine of showing her my pics on my camera, but it kinda just happened), laughing at my stupid fucking jokes, etc. I know it couldn't have been more obvious if she had a sign saying "I like you".
But I couldn't close. I just had to make sure that she's interested; I wasn't ready to risk our relationship until I was absolutely positive that she felt the same way. And I'm guessing that she does.

We haven't kissed before- the most kino we've had was middle school esque holding hands, hugs, playfully hitting each other, etc. I'm just clueless as to close.

That's hopefully where you guys can come in. Advice? Maybe some routines for kino escalation? Please and thank you!

If she is your best friend then why do you want to game her. You know that you would loose your best friend if the relationship doesnt work out right ?

I guess I didn't make it clear enough that I've been in the friends zone-I've liked her for a long while. Of course I know that our relationship would change forever. I've thought it through dozens of times- every single time I've disqualified myself, saying that I'm afraid of losing her, of things being awkward, etc.

But finally, an opportunity has arisen. I just...gotta know. I can't let this slip away and regret it for the rest of my life. I have to go for it, since she seems into me as well. I just don't know how to go about it.

Start to progressively hit on her the more she hits on you. Start flirting with her. Push-pull. Tease her about something and then say shit like "stop being cute youre making me like you."

Kino CONSTANTLY. Pretend like the kino is normal. Like when you walk, take her arm and put it around yours. Or when you're standing in line, just start poking her stomach. (dont do this if she's fat btw...). Push her away from you when she's being silly. Tease her mercilessly (remember that it has to be FUNNY) and then hug her when she laughs. Run push-pull shit like telling her she's sooo adorable. You're going to put her in your pocket and ask your mom if you can keep her. It works because its flirty yet ambiguous. Ambiguity creates sexual tension.

Basically you want to flirt with her, show her more and more interest, make her comfortable with your kino, and build sexual tension.

If she doesnt like it, you'll know because she'll start to throw disinterest. Assuming you're right about her liking you, then just start flirting more. Don't be that guy who sits around totally platonic and then ALL OF A SUDDEN makes a huge move. It's too jarring. Escalate smoothly.

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