I started reading PUA material about a year ago and it helped me. Girls became more attracted to me and a few developed crushes because I'm good-looking and seem confident. However, I never kissed any of these girls because on nights out in clubs if they approached me I was afraid of rejection so I would pretend I was too good for them and wouldn't engage them in conversation. As a result, lots of girls think im a snob and only meet 9s and 10s, because I would reject pretty much any girl, however good looking, because I knew if i tried to kiss them or flirt, people would realise im not all that cool.

Now I really just need to kiss close. I'm desperate. Im smart, good looking and I can be funny. No sisters and an all-boys school meant i pretty much had no contact with girls and don't really know how to talk to them. That's not what I need help with, because PUA helped me with that, but I simply havent got any action and I need some soon, even just a kiss close.

Guys, next time im out in a club i quite simply I have to kiss a girl. I dont want to seem too high value or any of that, in case i put the girl off, just tell em how to go really direct and get the kiss close.

So when I meet a girl that will do (my standards will have to drop here), do i just start kino'ing staright away and making the conversation sexual? A lot of guys around here just seem to try to put their arms around the girl straight away and it seems to work! its a sub-conscious thing on their behalf. Im not out to make friends, i just need a kiss-close its that simple.

HELP!

Drop your standards? Why? If girls see you as a man of high-value, GOOD! That's what you want. You don't need women viewing you as a spineless, wuss boy that will jump through hoops for a girls attention. I don't suggest you change anything except this fear you have of being rejected.


Don't start kino'ing until she has shown some interest. You don't want to come across as a creepy, disparate guy that can't keep his hands to himself. If she responds to a little kino, escalate. If she responds, escalate again, etc. It's a cat and mouse game; just keep it playful if possible. You want her to be comfortable around you, keeping the situation fun and lighthearted will do just that.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

drop my standards because I just need a kiss close asap and no time for messing around. once I have it under my belt my confidence should improve. Not that I will be starting out sarging average girls, I just won't be devoting my time to 8s 9s and 10s if it doesnt look likely. If I see a viable 6 or 7 I'll just get in there.

When you say escalate what do you mean? I think this is where my problems lie.

drop my standards because I just need a kiss close asap and no time for messing around

What's the hurry, do you have a train to catch? Take your time and game the 8's, 9's and 10's. Desperation will kill any attraction bro, girls can sense that sh*t a mile away.

Look up 'escalation' in your PUA material, you should find paragraph after paragraph on this topic.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene