Okay… I’m not sure if this is the right place to put this, but I think every newbie needs to learn this anyways. Forewarning if you must. Some may not agree and some may not. You can share your thoughts and maybe give advice. For me personally, this is getting frustrating and in a way, I’m feeling of just giving up. It used to be fun knowing that you have the tools, but in the end you’re still wondering and ending up having a damn oneitis.

So, here’s a common situation that happens to all of us. Why say all of us? Because nobody was born a PUA! This is an ultimate shit test that most guys don’t even know how to handle, because it’s like a snake! Slithering in the grass waiting for the right moment, then BAM! Bites you right on your ass! It’s so unexpected that most guys don’t even know what hit them, and so startled that they don’t know how to get back to their own “suave” self! What am I talking about guys?

EMOTIONS!!! FEELINGS!!!

You’re probably thinking! What the hell are you talking about! I have GAME! I read all the BOOKS! I read all the threads in this forum! My post count is over 100+! Yeah, that’s all great and good but you know what! You’re still human! You will feel these emotions and feelings, that you were trying to avoid! And in the end, you going to be stuck having a oneitis!

Before I go on, this thread is not meant to offend anybody or scare anybody. I apologize in advance, but I’m just frustrated and I guess this is the only place I can get this off my chest.

I’ve been gaming this girl and it started off really good. I mean I used all the “tools”, knew the right words to say, and made her laugh. I felt very confident on how I acted, portrays alpha male, I couldn’t even think of anything else I could’ve done. Then it happens, the SNAKE bit me on my ass! I started to have feelings for this girl. I started noticing that I go to her! I felt really frustrated because I ask myself, how am I suppose to be doing this right, when I always go to her! EMOTIONS came over me. (Don’t worry, I haven’t told her anything about how I feel, but not doing it makes it more frustrating) I noticed that when I try to flirt and text her, I don’t get any replies back like I used to. I thought about this could be a shit test, so I freeze her out. I’ve even decided to give her the cold shoulder and told her that I’m “breaking-up” with her. I was waiting for her reaction, like if she would even play along, but nothing! Now I’m trying to get back my own happy confident self, but it’s getting hard! I don’t want to be the type of guy that just sits there. I’m usually cheerful and outgoing. It’s also kind of hard, if I have the whole crowd just freeze her out, because I’m feeling shitty! (Having all the attention on me, while they just ignore her is just a bit too harsh, especially when everybody knows everybody)

I guess what I’m trying to say is, IMHO, if you dive in this GAME we play head first, you better kill all your emotions and your feelings! Because no matter what you do, and no matter what you say, if you let you’re feelings overcome you, you will be walking in a quicksand and won’t realize it until it’s too late!

I think you got this a bit wrong. Of course everyone get feelings, but these 'tools' help you progress fast in order to prevent these emotions to trigger. You don't fall in love over night, it is a process that takes a lot longer. Thus the goal is to get the relationship to the point were you are allowed to get feelings before you actually get them.

- Exerio

The key isn't getting rid of your emotions. The key is to master them so you can fully enjoy a high degree of them without losing control of the steering wheel.

i didn't say fall in love overnight.. this was actually unexpected.. i guess when you see them having fun with you, and making them smile.. and knowing that you could treat them so much better than whoever they are with (assuming they have one) or just treat them better in general, and assuming that they are feeling the same way.. you start falling into this emotions that you're trying to control in the first place!