Hi guys!

I just come back from my first sarging night (well, the first night after I know what sarging means... I am totally new in the community). It was not a good night and I feel the need to cover my experiences in some other threads. But for now:

How to have revenge on a LJBF girl?
She isn't that spectacular, she's a brunette 6, but I do like her. I live with her in a student home and I know her since 2 weeks. Last week, I told her that I was into her (that was before I discovered that community). She gave me a typical LJBF resonse. I wasn't OK with that. I started to get into the world of seduction and started to flirt with her on a different level. It worked good.. well, I thought so.
This night, we all (me and 4 friends including her) went out and suddenly... her date appeared. I was like "what the fuck, she never said that she is dating another guy" and now she is getting close to him in front of my eyes. She knows how I feel about her and now she is doing that! That was ... a cockblock... i guess. I felt a bit sick the whole night.
I talked to that guy for a minute... I was the alpha, even though he is taller and looked stronger that me, he is younger though.

OK... what do I want?

I want to ...
- make her fall in love with me
- f close her
- drop her

Another question is: Should I do that?
Maybe you guys just can help that newbie to get some facts straight.

Thanks.

just forget about her. like you said she only a HB6. No revenge needed. Just getting revenge shows you just how desparate you are about a HB6. just focus on getting out there more. the more pick up you get and the hotter the girl, your just gonna look back and laugh at this event and be like "man what i was thinking!" dont let this bump in the road slow you down.

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Get revenge on her by having success with other women. Don't pine over her! As you are new to the community, that's called "oneitis". Improve your game, improve yourself, keep your friendship with her.

Give it time, let her come back to you. Maybe this time she'll be the one to express interest and you can LJBF's her as you walk off with a 9 or a 10 =)

Ok, I got it... thanks.

Should I use her as pivot or would that convuse my inner game too much (I think it might)?

I don't think that is a good idea right now. Maybe later after you've had a few closes and your feelings are completely gone. Right now spending too much time around her will just make you more focused on her and less focused on other opportunities. The main thing to realize is to never make a single woman your ultimate goal. You can't control people. You can build up your skills so that you will always have quality women in your life, but you can't make a woman love you. The more you are focused on one girl, the needier you are, the less attractive you are, and the less likely she will be with you. Always remember the world is filled with hot women, so don't immediately limit yourself.