Hey guys! Let me introduce myself. I don't have a nickname but I kinda like the name Garuda1 lol. Well, I'm new to the game and I am very excited about doing it correctly.

I never really peacock but I have ordered some kool necklaces which I intend to use and some rings.

basically I wanted to ask you guys about something. A friend which I have had for many years now and also my 'best friend'... I've liked her and i have told her that I liked her ages ago but she didnt like the idea of it. I confessed my love to her yet again recently and she didnt take it lightly then either. Shes trapped in this love for another guy and shes not attracted to me. I can understand why. I have never negged her (I didnt even know about negs back then) and I've always complimented her and did things for her etc.

Is it possible to get the girl that rejected you to like you, even after all the years? Or is it impossible? I mean... I guess im just a typical AFC who doesn't know the answer to this.

Any sort of advice would be good. Has anyone succeeded in something like this?

Thanks guys, cant wait to hear from you all

im really new at this but i think that:

i think the answer is u go for it and ppl will u give u advice on how to do it and give it a go good luck success.


or try just move on and keep her just as a friend.

i found that trying and going for it never works as of yet for me, but i go for it annyway, to stop the what if thoughts...

hope this helps dude.

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if i have miss-spelled something its not because im stupid its because i cant be bothered to spell stuff properly while trying to type as fast as humanly possible

its A LOT harder to get a girl uve fucked up with and she remembers than to get with sum1 new.
this best friend knows u too well, but not the great things about you. i mean when u confess your love to someone and u dont know if they like or love you too. then u fucked up BIG TIME right there. like thats a deal breaker.
so basically what you gotta do. get your game to be the best it can be. go out and get with the hottest girls. spend less time around this best friend girl. bring these hott girls around ur best friend person, like double dates or parties or whatever. she will get jealous cuz thats what girls do. she will then realize "damn hes changed. hes just so hott now"
and then go and get her. but i can tell you that on this journey, u may lose your feelings for this girl and fall for someone else. it happens a lot. so just a warning, things might turn out better than u thought. lol

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed

You probably think that connecting to her and bonding with her will make her more attracted to you. It doesn't work that way. Attraction is almost instantaneous. You don't work at making a girl more and more attracted to you, you must be attractive before you meet her (in terms of personality not looks). If you come across as needy, desperate, insecure, un-confident, or supplicating; you will be seen as very unattractive. So the terrible irony is that everything you've done so far to try and get her, has most likely pushed her away.
Likewise some asshole comes along, who happens to be confident and secure in himself, and she is instantly attracted to him even though she doesn't know him at all. And she's in love with him because she has allowed herself to become desperate and insecure, while he is probably playing hard to get (vs you playing super easy to get).

So my advice, you'll never get a girl when you feel like you absolutely need to have her. That kind of neediness is poison to you self-esteem and to your attractiveness toward women. Neediness and insecurity are your enemies when it comes to women.

IMO, this is difficult but NOT impossible.

Reasons why it's difficult:
She knows you.
This means, that anything you do in terms of changing for the better from an AFC to a mPUA, SHE WILL NOTICE. Behavioural changes, fashion changes, and essentially lifestyle changes, are all things she will immediately notice and question in you.
Therefore the key to changing with a girl that knows you so well, is SUBTLETY.
You're not going for peacock in this case, peacock makes everyone notice you which is fine and great for cases where you need the attraction to be instantaneous, so you shouldn't overdo peacocking with a girl who knows you if she's your target, peacock when you go out with her so other girls notice you and raise your value (clubs, parties, grocery stores, etc..).

You tried and failed.
Your biggest problem will be getting her to change that preconcieved notion in her head, that everytime she looks at you, she sees that AFC who tried and tried and failed.
Fastest way to fix that is what hollywoodd said in his post.
Girls want what they can't have, its true and its simple, they're always attracted to the dominant male. Problem is, you made it more than clear you want her, you're out there on a silver platter and she's never ever going to take you when you gift wrapped your heart and handed it over. Go out with her after you've radicated your lifestyle and feel ready to pick up some hotties. When you're out just go and pick up other girls (they HAVE to be better looking than your friend, doesnt work otherwise) and work the jealousy angle.

When you pick up a hotter girl, the first reaction your friend will get is insecurity, and its a BIG one. All negs do is basically work on a girls insecurity on a fun saavy way, and make you come off as dominant, strong, and with more value.
Think of this as like the king of negs, if you make a succesful pick up it will raise your value considerably, work her insecurity and spark a tiny little bit of jealousy which will be just enough to make her think "did i fuck up by not taking him? he seems so different, etc etc etc".

What you want to do is hit the RESET button in this girls head. The only way thats going to happen on a relatively short time scale is if she sees you with better looking girls, working sets, being confident, etc. But again like hollywoodd said in his post before, basically once you open the door and walk through it, chances are you wont want to go back to your friend .
good luck[/b]