So I'm 20 years old, a junior in college, and I just got out of a pretty rough relationship and I decided the best way to get over it is just to hang out with the guys and go out and maybe meet some girls. Anyways, I'm supposed to be going to the beach on Thursday with some friends of mine, all guys unfortunately. None of us are very good with girls. I'm still new to the PUA game. The friends I'm going with are even less skilled with women. Anyways, I know there's going to be a lot of cute girls at the beach. They tend to stick in their groups though. I don't exactly have a great body so I usually end up keeping my shirt on at the beach. What are some strategies to meet some girls at the beach and at least initiate some conversation? How do I compensate for my lack of competent wingmen? Any tips would be helpful. I usually tend to freeze up with severe AA.

Just wanted to bump this up to get some thoughts. I'm just really nervous about getting back in the dating game after a really bad relationship. So I just want to make sure I handle things right this time around in terms of meeting the right person.

man i feel you the beach does have the hottest babes! lol i dont live near the beach but everytime i go i see the usual 9.0 or 10s. as for approaching especially if u are new anything is better than nothing. girls are always going to the beach to have fun and possibly meet a guy that will sweep her off there feet. YOU be that guy. my advice i wouldnt use game for a beach situation thats for clubs and bars. Have fun. this is what i do. Bring buddies and take a football or some kind of beach object. throw it around and purposefully throw it near HB's and when u go to get it, open up with something like "u girls wanna play?" or the cocky "whats up girls" be creative and have a fun cocky frame. and if they snub you just be like "Fine then dont talk to me" they ALWAYS respond after i say that. Try it.. tell me how it goes

MAXXIM

yo aj,

dont worry about ure body structure too much at all, i used to think that too, and used to keep my shirt on
but how come we see so many fatasses with the HBs? Its because they have a "this is the way I am" mentality. So yeah just go out there and enjoy ureself with ure friends and listen to MAXXIM!

Good Luck!

Hey friend,

I wanted to find your post to put up what happened today as it happened on my local beach.
So, this month my kids are with me. (i am divorced and have a months holidays with them which means i can't do hardly any sarging or at least i thought.
so cut to the chase.
My kids go charging into the sea, for a swim and are there for about 20 mins. and of course little old me is looking around pretending to be reading my book and checking all the girls in bikinis.
See this lady with a 4 or 5 year old kid. also an older lader to my left but i go for the first one. fighting with a bout of approach anxiety. i walk the twenty metres to her towel. she is with her kid and as i talk to her she doesn't realise i am speaking to her.

Me_ by chance do you work in the airport?
her-- what?(i ask in english and she obviuosly didnt pass her english exam at school. she has major bitch shield expression on her face)
me do you work in the airport?(in Spanish)
her- ah, why?
me- cos she look just like someone who works there...
she breaks into a grin.. and smiles... but i am not sure if she had busted my scam or she just thought it was comical the idea. anywayssss.
i say, ooops real sorry see ya and walk away feeling like a real jerk.

btw an opener occured to me just after i did the approach.

me- excuse its really hot. andi went and forgot my suntan cream do you think i could use yours just for my face.
her. sure.
me. thanks.

any ideas to carry on the conversation guys?

so Mr E, is once again on the beach this time armed wth props. camera and all.

Me and my kid arrive and we sit next to this babe, hb6 and so I immeditaly get the towels out and there is my camera,

so i approach the babe with my camera and i didn't feel like i really even had to say anything to her. her arms were more or less going for the camera before i even asked her.

she says, have a look, make sure its a good one
i say it is great and says muchas gracias and then get loads of iois, she was sitting with her mother or granny.

anyways, ten mins later the boyfriend turns up so i was pleased in a way i didn't waste my time buttering her up/.
cest la vie or watever

You can continue conversation with anything, you are a busy man, give her a fake time constraint. Ask her if she is from the area or anything

What I would do is use the 3 second rule if your nervous. If you even start talking to a couple of girls you don't know then your buddies are going to go nuts! That'll probably give you enough confidence to keep on beach sarging.

Just keep a good mentality. If you feel like you can talk to a girl, then you can. With the right mindset you can do anything.

Oh and bring a frisbee. Girls love throwing. Just throw it into a group of girls and ask for it back. Do it a couple more times and say "How about joining" or something along those lines

First off, a sign on confidence is to ditch that shirt and have some fun. Don't pay attention to what others might think about you at all. It is no benefit.

Secondly, the easiest way to meet girls are through eye contact. Girl's that keep eye-contact with you are probably interested in talking so approach those.

Thirdly, bring a frisbee/volleyball or something used for an activity and bring together more people to play. The more you get involved, the more social status you achieve:)

- Exerio