Okay so one of my friends, who is a girl, introduced me to one of her HB 8 friends. Upon my first interaction with this girl I could tell she had a huge bitch shield up, but I also noticed she wore a significant amount of makeup. I got to thinking that if I could hit her with a neg, that is not offensive to her, about her makeup I could get a step closer to lowering that shield.

I've honestly got nothing here...

there isnt an easy way to talk to huge bitches, and with that type of a girl you are sometimes on dangerous turf...

u just need to make her laugh. a single comment may or might not work, but if the situation is right and u can say something to make her laugh, use what is around u.

there are prob better things to talk about than makeup, unless your execution is perfect and ur choice of words, she is probably really going to turn that against you and be even more of a bitch if she takes it real personally.

instead, just say something about her attitude...

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Hey JBomb

Makeup? ..I suggest to never comment on her makeup. She does it for a purpose- ie, to attract you! ......

she put time and effort into it. Maybe a bit too much on some occasions..but it is best avoiding it

As for lowering her bitch shield...

Cold reads can work exactly the same. The intention is to lead her into a personal topic and level her down to a human being:

You: You are really confident! ...Did your dad inspire you?
(girls are very touchy about their dads. Most dads may have left when they were young. So this kind of wording leaves it open, while implying her confidence is a result of her dad..and she will follow up on something personal)

You: You are very touchy! ..I have a feeling you have been around all the wrong guys. ...(extra: .."just don't take that out on me!)
(this refers to her past with ex boyfriends. Every girl has had a bad boy experience. So it brings up her history)

Both comments will knock down her shield because she has to latch on to some kind of emotion/memory.

Harsh? No! ....She knocks you down with logic! You have to snap her out of that so you both treat each other like human beings.

Sean

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All of this makes so much sense to me! most of the time when I am around a really hot girl I treat her like she deserves all the attention and that she's the most important thing in the room. I guess if I can get both of us on the same level, then we can actually interact and I can avoid most of the usual anxiety involved.

I just need to find a way to fight back.