Ellow! I was out with this girl 2 times now, 1. I kiss closed her, 2. we were making out for 2 hours We started to txt eachother now and i was wondering how often shall i txt her? SPAM i txt her like 5 messages every night>she always leaves open topic but i finish the convo, sayin sorry babe goin to x/doin x now catchya later! Is this ok or should i change anything?

~Undefined~

Well um from experience, You don't want to talk to her SO MUCH that she gets too comfortable and puts you in the LJBF zone like what happened to me with this one girl. I am still learning on this stuff but from what I am doing with this other girl and seems to keep her interested is yes let her open the convo and talk a bit keep her in your loop but don't do what I did and be ALWAYS available to respond back and call etc..etc.. I got put into the zone so quick because of that so yea doing 5 texts a night isn't that bad as long as she is staying interested in my opinion. Hope it helps

PS Yea I'm sure others will tell you different things who have more experience than me so take their advice aswell.

Heya!

I would be happy to say you should text her as much as you want to, but that isn't really the reality. I'm wondering if you've ever had a girl interested in you that texted you all the time? For me as for a lot of my friends we loose interest fast!

String it up a bit, don't text her if she doesn't text you, rather call her then text her and try to step it up into meeting her more often. Nothing good comes from texting all day.

About the answer to your question: There really is no answer, you have to suit it into your own personality. Just try to turn the situation instead, as if you were in her shoes. Your aim should be that once she sees your messages she will be happy, and not just expecting them.

- Exerio

yea that's a great advice, ty yea i just w8 for her to txt me and i make about 5 replies or so i think i always leave her wanting more from what i see in her replies was just wondering if she'd lose interest if i keep this up but as i see now it works well 1 more question there's nothing wrong if i keep c&f attitude in msgs? I mean hey i miss you blah blah just doesnt fit me... I rather go with yo sexy! Would you please stop checking your phone for my messages so often:)?

You do what works for you! If you are able to convey a c&f attitude on messages then you do that:)

- Exerio

yes, ur doing it well. sounds like stufff i say to girls.

but like one poster said, make sure it leads to stuff happening.

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