| pools and gyms are easy places to meet ppl; both are inherently pretty social SPAM.
at pools, assuming outdoor, a lot of girls are just there solo to sunbathe / read / relax....
generally i dont use practiced openers, but for instance, many times they will have a girly magazine... if u want to use that as a convo starter, you can comment on that magazine.... say "thats hilarious my mom read thats too" , or make up something like "i had a guy friend who had an internship with that magazine once, we used to joke about him all the time about it, thats hilarious that ur reading it"
just be creative...but also look like someone theyd want to talk to at a pool...
what also works too, and dont confuse this for a beta male action, is just saying "im getting a drink, u want a water?" sometimes if they are a bitch they will say no, most ppl dont refuse water tho, and when u come back u can always start up a convo easily. beta males ask the question like "can i buy you a drink" never ever ask it like that, big difference then.
remember, if they are there solo, chances are they wouldnt object to talking to u to help pass the time.
at the gym, well... i for one regularly go to the gym, but i go in the evenings to do one thing - lift. nothing else is a priority, but ive met ppl i had interest in occasionally. it normally works to ask them if they do any classes at the gym... say u were thinking about doing _____ , if she says she does xxxxx, just go "hmmm i might have to try that some time, sounds fun" she will prob say "u totally should", then go to that class, and u can really get to know her a lot better bc she will probably see u and say "u came!!"
if there are TVs in the gym, and you are doing cardio by her, talk about something recent... the window for this has passed, but im sure 2-4 weeks ago you could have gone up to any stranger and talked about the death of MJ. but i wouldnt choose this, there isnt too much "general knowledge" subject areas to bring up.
just some quick ideas
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