Hi!
Im totally new to this whole pickup stuff, so normally i wouldnt post yet, but read alot first. But i have a quite urgend question.
So i met a girl last weekend who immediately showed a lot of interest in me (we were both drunk) and made out with me after perhaps 15 min of talk. Later we went to her place to have a good time, but there the bad things started.
She tells me shes still to drunk to lie down and wants to get out and party a bit more, then come back later to her place. I thought (and still think) that she was honest with this, so we went to another club for a while. There she meets a lot of friends, makes party with them and i make party with a few friends of mine i meet there. Later we exchanged phone numbers, but didnt get back to her place. Next day she writes me and says sorry for letting me down. I write some standard message back like "no problem, was still a nice evening" (u know, im still an afc). No contact since that day, but im only on weekends in this town, where she lives.
Its not a big town, so i expect to see her again this weekend.
So here finally comes the question: How do i do it right this time?

cliffnotes: nearly fucked a girl last weekend, how to fuck her this weekend?

ps: excuse my bad english

I wouldn't worry about it too much, I am not here to judge anyone, but I have a problem having sex with a girl if she is wasted, especially because I don't like to get excessively drunk.

My reccomendation is to call her and go party with her again of course, if she is interested, she will still want to spend time with you. Work the cocky and funny attitude, and give her some push pull and you will be making out again in no time.

If you want to get laid though, you need to make a move to do that before she gets too wasted. So, before your holding her hair while she pukes, get her back to her apartment, and have some fun. Don't forget to use protection!!

first of all, ur text sucked. in ur case, if you cant think of something good to say, dont say anything. its hard to give u better text suggestions without knowing her (is she a bitch? is she a hot bitch? average? nice? )

so for next time: your main mistake was that you were probably too passive. give her less of a reason to want to go back out.... and if you tried to and failed, then dont just make the mistake of brushing her off that entire night like it sounds you did.

one course of action that generally works is to find some other girls, give them attention, but then go back to the original girl and give her some. ir ur situation, it is good you didnt just try to stay around her the entire time, that would be a big mistake. give her a little space, but not too much where she loses interest.

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this is something called "buyers remorse" basicly you almost had "fools Mate" you esculated to fast and you both were drunk. She might of liked being with you at that time but when she got sober and realized what she did with you she decided it was best not to make further contact with you beside that one text. If you see her agian. Dont bring up what happend last time. this time build more comfort. Have the balls to say "hey we are moving to fast" or " hey not here ". try agian with these step.

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As a man you're supposed to take the lead.

instead of "what does she want" think "what do I want" and act accordingly

@nonstop, This isn't 'buyer's remorse'. It's escalating not too fast and letting the girl do what she pleases.

She was feeling it, but there was no anticipation, no warm blanket.
Girls always want that blanket, so she left.

sounds like she's attracted for sure get on to forming a real connection with her now.

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Don't think of just fucking her!!
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Guys like you are really the reason why a lot of girls hate guys, cuz you only think about sex, sex and more sex!!
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