Ok so, i tried the newbie mission and I must say, i didn't expect so many friendly hi's back, so i think it's a succes, i'll keep doing this .
now another thing, i met this girl and i tried some of the suggestions on these forums about speaking to girls when you first talk to them, it went better than i expected, tomorrow we got our first date, but she has a boyfriend and i don't know what to do about that .
does anyone have any suggestions on what i should talk to her about, you know , keep the conversations interesting n stuff.

Love to hear from you guys

grts AlexS

Heya! It's great to see you succeeded to do that mission and saw how friendly people actually is:)

- The best way to get an interesting conversation is by talking about a passion. If you are really interested in what you talk about it usually gets the same enjoyment from the other person:)

You should also read a bit about "Demonstration of Higher Value" or DHV as it usually is referred to. Tell her some interesting things that contain some of those pointers and get her to tell some of her stories and you should be having a great conversation!

It also usually goes naturally to keep a conversation up if you both feel comfortable with it. Just don't make her too comfortable! You want to joke around a bit and build attraction as well:)

- Exerio

Think of 5 stories in your life where you were the 'hero'. Whether it's helping your niece or grandmother you want to have several DHV (demonstration of higher value) spikes. Keep things simple and humorous. Put some cocky funny into the stories. Multi-thread, jump between a few. Tease her - like an older brother would. Push her around physically in a playful way. Keep things fun. Soon she'll discover that being with you is more interesting then her boyfriend.

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hey thx for the advice guys, gonna try it tomorrow

Don't worry about the boyfriend, it shows something that she is going out with you even with a boyfriend (relationship could be rocky) I personally would take his gurl by charming the pants off her flirting making her laugh and getting close ... keep the date active live and sponteous women love that shit ...

I may be a bit late with these tips as I believe you've already had the date. But I'm just going to throw them out there for any future first dates.

I think pretty much everyone knows to make sure that you have a fun time by being playful, talking about interesting topics, making her laugh etc etc.

But, just remember that a girl will be looking at other things and a lot of guys forget some of the basics like:

1. Be a gent, open doors for her, pull out her seat, make sure the waiter takes her order first.
2. If the date was your idea, take care of the bill discreetly like excusing yourself to go to the restroom then pay the bill. When she reminds you to get the bill, tell her it's already been taken care of. When she gives you a strange look at this, and they all do, just say "You're welcome". You can add that she can take care of the next one if you like.
3. Remember your 'please' and 'thank you' magic words, don't let them at home.
4. If walking on the sidewalk, walk on the outside to protect her from vehicles.
5. If you're driving her home, escort her to her door.

By doing these things, you're DHVing. You're showing that you a protector of loved ones, one of the key alpha male characteristics.

It's these little things that go overlooked. Guys are trying to act so cool that they forget to do the simple basics things that all girls want a guy to do.
By mixing these gentleman acts with your C&F, it's a powerful mix.

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