Ever since I am started with seduction (about 1 -2 years ago) I ran into minor problems and with help from other people and standard material (David D, Neil, etc. ) I did solved them..

But last week I walked into a clothing store and saw a HB8.5 and had to solve a problem I had with my clothes. She told me it was possible to get a new one, but I had to wait for a week or so. A couple of days later she called me and said that she was HOPING that I could come that same week. And so I did..

We had some nice conversation and she was really interested and started to ask a lot of question like: "What are you doing tonight etc." and I..... CHOKED!!!! I have to say that daygame is not 'my thing' but I see opportunities but I have to start from scratch with this one..

Now I saw her 3 times (In the meantime I also bought something else) and every time we had a great time with jokes and she laughing at my jokes.. What could i do to get this to a next level? What could be used as an possiblity to ask her out? What to do if there are co-worker(s) in the store as well? (Who also gave IOI as well)

What I was thinking:
- Me: "Hey, I bought this shirt, but actually I (also) wanted something else from this store"....
She: "Like what?"
Me: "Your phone number / E-mail / A night out with you! (maybe the last one is TOO needy?)"

Or:
- Going to fit some other stuff again and then tell her you need her help..
Me: "Hey, Can you help me out on this one?"
She: "sure!"
Me: "I just cannot decide which one I like the most: this shirt or you..."

or:
Me: "I bought this shirt but I am doubting if this fit me well"..
She: "Well show it to me!"
Me: "Ok, 1 sec"......
She: "Yeah I like it / I don't like it that much"
Me:
- If she likes it: "So you would walk next to me in a bar when looking this sharp?"
She: "yeah!"
Me: "What about next saturday?!"

- If she doesn't like it:
Me: "Imagine we would have a date, what kind of clothes would you like to I'm wearing?"
She: gives advice...
Me: "Saturday your imagination comes true, what is your #? I'll call for details!"

suggestions and help are welcome!

I would probably say something on the lines of cocky funny ....

You: I look pretty hott in the shirt
Her: Yea you do or no you don't
You: Well, since you like this shirt, maybe the both of us can go caught a bite and I wear it for you....
You: (if no) Well maybe you can help me pick out a shirt, I can wear on a date with you this weekend ....

I think this might be some decent material ... I am kind of out of it right now maybe, I will hit you with something better tm morning ...

never use fabricated bs like "i was wanted to ask you something else... " *yes?* "whats your number" ... im not being an asshole here, i just want you to hopefully see why it comes off ridiculous. yeah, james bond can do that shit like that, but that is in the movies, and nobody else is james bond.

so back on topic, to her right now you are probably just a nice customer. her job is to call u with some details, and as for her saying she hopes you can come in next week, could be an innocuous statement, or she could be interested. but if you havent done anything to show interest in her, then for sure she is treating you just like a customer and probably just trying to have u spend money in her store.

honestly, it might be weird if you keep going in there "shopping" and just having small talk with her... i mean, that isnt accomplishing much.

what i would do is buy something from another store, whatever, it doesnt matter... the important thing is that it sends the message that you were there to get that item.

then i would go to her store, wihle she is working of course (and not busy), then just make it known that you only came in to tell her hi because you were around. ask her whats up... if you havent see her in a couple weeks that is probably better than a couple days (play a little catch up). then say you need to go do whatever ,but ask her out to do something with u.

it is important to do it in this fashion where you are NOT really being a customer to her, so there isnt any awkward pressure / reason why she might accept or refuse. its a person to person convo, not an employee to customer.

then id go return that item i used as a prop, unless u actually wanted it.

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btw, i am advising you how to set up a situation where u can succeed. obviously u need to fill in the blanks ( aka the exact things you are going to say).

just go in there with a clear head, and a few ideas.... dont rehearse shit. few convos go as planned anyway

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Thanx for the advice thusfar!
First i would like to get a better insight and not ment to be bs´ing someone

@SPAM, I never ment to ask her of her number out of the blue
Prob you mean this line " Hey, I bought this shirt, but actually I (also) wanted something else from this store"

To me it is something completely different or am i totally wrong on this one"

I could be wrong (but I'm almost never wrong) but when she and later her co-worker as well are only busy with me (and around 5 other people in the store) and have animated conversations and a lot of touching from their side, i am NOT a regular customer! I am shopping quite often and I sense the difference

For sure I will wait for a couple of days or weeks before coming there again and hopefully I can practise on other girls (daygame) before seducing her

Tips are welcome! (sorry, but most of the interpunctions don't work ()

Stop thinking so much.

you came up with more than I could :p

@SPAM: thinking you can't do or say stuff is a limiting belief.

I understand, but in club game I am mastered (kind of) and a total retard in daygame, since i never did that before.

@Satan
Since you should be Dutch, when running into other cultures (Antiliaans) do you change your game or does it remain the same, what do you give as an option to say

[quote="Sat@n"]Stop thinking so much.

you came up with more than I could :p

@SPAM: thinking you can't do or say stuff is a limiting belief.[/quote]

i never said he cant say stuff or do certain things. he can say and do whatever he wants, and whatever he wants to do or say is EXACTLY what he should do. i cant stress that enough.

all i am saying is that taking one path as opposed to another path might take you to a different destination. isnt that the point of all advice? people can reject advice just as easily as they can accept it, it is a 2way street.

to the OP:

i see where you are coming from, i was definitely direct in my example, but to answer ur question, i still dont see much difference. both basically follow the same formula: throw out a verbal distraction (unrelated to anything, just framing ur question), then ask directly for her number. i am trying to say that the verbal distraction is a disservice to you in a few ways.

- it comes off very premeditated, which makes her feel like you have been thinking about this for a long time, which in turn gives off a weird kind of vibe

- it makes you seem like you are trying too hard.

so i am just saying be direct when it comes to getting her number, it is a question that doesnt really need to be framed in a situation like yours.

and, if she has shown signs of interest like u say, then tthat should be all the more empowering.

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In some way the setting is ´wrong' to me, because after all she is working! And I need to figure out what the best way is for me and maybe get some boosts from here!

Today I boosted some confidence by receiving IoI's at the police station and I need to work on it even more and then I will ask her out or her number, tips still welcome

And I like critical posts like the one of you before since it makes me think about the situation and make me aware of different aspects! [/b]

maybe I found a new thing for myself!

In the tshirt I bought is a telephone number of a caravan dealer
Maybe I could ask the girl why it´s that phone number instead of hers

Would that be a nice one

Don't ask for #s just insiniuate they are yours and collect. I got this one with ease and you should do the same....

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