I have been friends with this girl for 4 years but I really like her could any of you tell me if I am building attraction.

" dear me, I really wanted to say that I and several others have mentioned how together you are: focusing on school and doing p90x (some really intense workout program) You were also very sweet in the moments before my surgery. Pretty much you are amazing and I am sorry we fought this year. Thanks for being my friend again.

Thanks Guys!

Sounds like you're in the LJBF zone

110% friend zone. Sounds like you guys might have been close at one point or that you had your chance and must have blown it somehow. It probly has something to do with the fight she mentions. Not knowing the whole story makes it hard to tell. But the last sentence is the nail in the friends coffin. But im not one of those guys that thinks just because you are friends dosnt mean thats the end. Honestly there are several girls i was just friends with and we have slept together. But thats usually the farthest it went. We never dated and nothing became serious out of any of them but that was never the intent. And we are still friends even.
If you want to still try id focus on trying to rekindle what you had. For example it sounds like theres a special moment she is thinking of that she might have been attracted to you at and it sounds like it was something you did before her sergery. What ever you did im guessing she liked it. Get her in the moment and she might forget about the whole friends thing long enough that you might have a chance. If she droped the "i dont wanna ruin our friendship" line then you misjudged and might have to try some freeze out tactics. you should be able to tell by her body language where shes at in her attraction to you. Also since your friend she will probly be ok with you massaging her. Which is a good way to get someone to start building someones sexual desire. Start massageing and judge how shes reacting. If you feel it right maybe slowly work your way to her legs. If she stops you or says it feels wierd then i think it might be too late. This massage tactic worked for me on a long time friend of mine that was had almost dated a long time before but never did and never had any other sexual things happen between us. Then one night of watching movies alone she asked if i would massage her legs. After working on them for a while i could tell she was in the mood. It was late so i decided to go to bed and she went with me and it was over.

I might be wrong about some of this stuff im just basing it off past experieces of my own. Which i encourage you to go with your own gut if you try anything. And remember you dont fail you just learn what you shouldnt do next time.

Skankin

Thanks man I appreciate that! If there's any other advice you could give me don't hesitate.

Friend zone, she even thanks for being a friend ... personally if I were you I would try easing into this one slowly, by flirting and touch her in a joking manner and see how she responds if she writes you off ... you are pretty much stuck in the friend zone, and should move on ... if the flirting and touch is possitive then game her and move it up ...