Alright basically to sum it up theres this girl she has a bf who she has been dating for a little while but i think he is a prick and could care less what he thinks i dont like the way he treats her. So i have been out clubbin with this girl 3 times in the past week and a half and i can tell she likes my presence i make her laugh alot and when we go on the dance floor she dances on me like she wants to fuck. The other night she was chillin at her crib and i was out partying and she invited me over to her crib to chill so i came over i was with my friend though plus i was drunk and she was sober so i knew not to expect much we just blazed a blunt and chilled for a little then i left, one thing i did ask her to do though before i left was to squeeze my ass just to see how she would react to it and she did it right away no questions asked. She always just text me throughout the day drunk or sober she will just text me seeing what im doing or asking me a question and we just continue texting each other through out the day majority of my text in my phone right now are from her. We flirt for sure and say some sexual things in person or in the text we joke alot. So my question is how should i handle this situation she is a cool ass girl for sure im very attracted to her i enjoy being around her and im afraid if i make a move i might get recjected since she does have a man she has been dating for a while so if i make i move and get rejected i would feel weird around her from then on and dont know if i would hit her up anymore, im pretty sure if she was single i would be able to get it but my question is should i just man up and make a move on her soon and how should i initiate it or should i be patient and hope her relationship ends soon so i can come off the rebound???

Three things you could do.

1) Just keep being cocky and funny around her without displaying any neediness to her and hope that she'll dump the guy and fall into your arms.
2) Forget her, she's in a relationship and a man doesn't play on another man's court.
3) Use a Boyfriend destroyer. What is it? Google is your friend.

Personally, speaking from experience, I'd go with number 2, but that's just me. I don't make moves on another man's girl and I wouldn't tolerate any other man doing so on my girl.

thanks for the advice bro i looked at the boyfriend destroyer gave me some new knowledge some what, but if i do decide to make a move on her soon i dont know exactly how to do it since spitting game to a girl with a man is alot different then spitting it to a single lady so is there any help there on how i should make the move? and any other advice is highley apperciated thanks.

you can't wait for the relationship to end. girls will stay in crappy relationships (not always, but it happens), so you can't just wait for it.
you have to make her want you more than she wants her bf, to give her what she doesn't get from him, and escalate things properly. so, you do have to make the move if you want her.

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unlike the first reply if the guy cant keep the girl attracted to him shes free game. if shes that attracted to you shes just waiting for you to make your move. but since she has a b/f she will have an extra wall of def. by saying we should'nt be doing this i have a boyfriend. so what you will have to do is play that card first when you start getting more intimate pull back a little and say: we shouldnt be doing this you have a boyfriend. then just keep on going like nothing happened. but you should probly use a b/f destroyer before you do this. just my 2 cents

thanks guys.