So here it is, I’ll try and make this as painless as possible for you guys.

I met someone from work recently with some solid game. We’ve been out to bars, clubs, round my house and for a meal so it was going pretty well. I’m far from new to this so I know she was definitely into me. Then this minor thing happened while we were eating in a restaurant, she told me it was her mates birthday and that she had turned all her mates down to come out with me. I obviously thought nothing of this but because who wouldn’t? I’m brilliant. Then later on she goes to the toilet and comes back out sayingsomething that completely changed everything.

She basically said that after the meal she wants to be dropped off to this bar where she was going to meet up with all her mates. I don’t know why this bothered me so much! Maybe I thought I was going to mash her that night or maybe it’s because I felt like she wasn’t enjoying herself and wanted to meet her mates. Anyway I started being a bit funny with her and criticising some of her childish opinions. Such as how she cares what other people think so much, which is how I know girls are but as you can tell I was pissed off. Also when we got into the car I played my favourite music really loud which by the way she can’t really stand and basically ignored her all the way to where I was dropping her off. When she went to get out the car she came all the way over to me to kiss me while rubbing my lef but I just blanked it, said “cya” then drove off with a stupidly big erection.

Anyway as if by magic, that night she met her mates she got attacked completely unprovoked. She went to hospital (she texted me at 4am saying she had an egg head) and has had stitches. Because of this she hasn’t been at work and I haven’t really talked to her apart from a really stupid text from myself, which said “Works rubbish, wish I got bottled. Actually why would I want an egg head?” She basically said that’s very insensitive and I replied “Only if you don’t see the funny side” she never texted back so I apologized saying “I should have been more thoughtful. I was trying to make you smile but failed miserably” She then replied with “Blah blah, don’t worry been in a bad mood I’m a silly female”

Finally I spoke to her yesterday on the phone and she seemed quite distant. Also she never mentioned anything about meeting up again and said she’ll probably see me in a few days at work. I’m getting a bit of a bad vibe from the situation now and I’m too stubborn to ask her out as I don’t want her to think I’m desperate and reject me.

Now I’m in a predicament, I’m feeling great and I want to meet up with some women. I like the one I talk about above a bit but not too much (PLEASE NOTE I NEVER ALLOW MYSELF TO FULLY LIKE A FEMALE BECAUSE THAT’S WHEN I UTTERLY FAIL WITH THEM) I’m texting around 4 other different girls but I don’t really like them too much.

1) Do you guys ever just text girls for a bit of attention? I seem to be doing this a lot recently, leading them on even though I don’t want it to go anywhere.
2) Same sort of question as above. Do you guys ever meet like HB 7-8’s knowing full well you don’t really like them but have nothing better to do.
3) What should I do about the girl listed above? My gut instinct tells me to keep text/ringing her but the PUA in me is saying ignore her until she comes to you.
4) What should I do?!

Anything you guys have will be appreciated.

K well first of all u were kinda a hypocrit that night. You were critisizing her for being childish and then you go and throw a hissy fit because she wants to see her friends after a night out with you. Gettin all upset like that, seems kinda needy if ya ask me. Best gameplan would of been to act all like it didnt bother you at all, even better, act like that sounds like a great idea and try and get the invite out. If ya wanted to mash her that night, what better way then to go to a bar n get her liq'd?
Lettin ur emotions get in the way of ur gaming will always throw things off. Let me tell ya ive been there, where ur runnin great game, u think things are awesome and then boom, some lil thing gets thrown off, you start over thinking things, and u start comin to conclusions that arent really true. Just act natural with her at work, take a step back maybe, try n go out for a coffee, or take lunch together at work and talk a bit.

In response to ur questions:
1.Hellz ya i do. who doesnt like a lil attention once and a while, just practicing on easy targets and trying things out on
2. Kinda the same answer as above, its all ego at that point, u dont care about them, u dont care if u really mess things up so ur looser to push the limits. Also its good to be wanted, and every girl u talk to, friend or not, is just social proof at a bar n make great pivots.
3. Personally, I wouldnt text her or call her, wait till ya cross paths at work and take it slow.

Rep up, great reply.

A little bit more info I forgot to mention. When she said she was going to meet her friends it was for an Oasis after party, she said that her friend only had one ticket and what that basically meant was I couldn't go. I think that's another reason why I was bit angry. Your completely right though, I don't know why but at the time I thought throwing a bitch fit was kind of like freezing her out but in reality it just made me look needy.

She should be back in work today and I'll see how things go. If not it's back to the drawing board to trying to find some more potential candidates and then off to Ayia Napa for a week!