How would describe a healthy attitude towards a woman you're trying to pick up?

Examples would be:
- She's special
- She's suspicious
- She's a piece of meat
- She's ordinary
- She's wonderful
- Etc.

What are the traits in your opinion?

Don Juan Demarco with johnny depp my friend. one of the movies highly recomended by david d'angelo

"By seeing beyond what is visible to the eye. Now there are those, of course, who do not share my perceptions, it's true. When I say that all my woman are dazzling beauties, they object. The nose of this one is too large; the-the hips of another, they are too wide; perhaps the breasts of a third, they are too small. But I see these women for how they truly are... glorious, radiant, spectacular, and perfect, because, I am not limited by my eyesight. Women react to me the way that they do, Don Octavio, because they sense that I search out the beauty that dwells within until it overwhelms everything else. And then they cannot avoid their desire, to release that beauty and envelope me in it. So, to answer your question, I see as clear as day that this great edifice in which we find ourselves is your villa. It is your home. And as for you, Don Octavio DeFlores, you are a great lover like myself, even though you may have lost your way and your accent. Shall I continue?"

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Yeah, that was an awesome movie. But I don't think that attitude would really work in the real world. I think it's the attitude that men wish would work, but it doesn't yield results.

Edit: Actually, I take that back. There is a lot of good stuff in there. I just think it needs to be understood in the right way, which can be tricky if you're an AFC.

Shes ordinary
She talks "blah blah blah blah.." (just look at her nonverbal subcommunication).
Shes a sexual creature
She wants you

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I think a healthy attitude would be:

"Is this girl WORTHY of my attention?"
"I can offer her such a good time"
"She will be better off after meeting me"
"I am the man, she'll be lucky if I talk to her"
"I am going to make this girl's day"

I tend to focus on pumping MYSELF up when going to meet women. By putting the emphasis on the "prize" I can offer her, which is ME, it helps to destroy any fear of rejection or embarrassment. If you offer a bum money and he refuses, would it bother you? I look at the love, life, or good time I am offering a girl and if she doesn't want that then hey, its her loss....

I tend to look at girls and think:

"She's hot, lets go see what she's about and see if she's any good for me"

I see women as a beautiful different view on the world, they give me energy and make me feel great, shit, in love, lonely etc etc they are awesome in short.

Most women are victims of their environment, constantly being told they are too fat and that they shouldn't be sexual or they are sluts.

meh in short I think men can be whole without them but I see them like mind expanding drugs lol

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