Hey guys i'm just in a bit of a strange situation... I'm kinda keen on this girl from my

class at college and we went and had a bit of lunch and did some work for college last

week (I certainly wouldn't call it a date, we were just hanging out). And everything

was going cool, I was getting IOI's from her like she was playing with her hair and

shit and she kept on laughing at my jokes and stuff like that. Anyway after lunch

we went to a bar and did a bit of college work for about an hour.

At the end of finishing our work we walked out of the bar and when on the street I

said to her do you want to do this again, she said yeah sure so I said cool I'll call

you on the weekend.

Anyway I called her yesterday and no answer and she didn't return my call. So I

sent her a text this morning and guess what???? no reply.

The reason why I find this wierd is because she's usually pretty punctual in getting

back to her. Anyway It's fucken wierd, why would someone do this?

My advice is jus ta chill out and hang back abit
Give her some time to call you back and stop harassing her phone lol

well turns out i was bored and my mind was playing on me a bit she got back to me and i'm seeing her tuesday. How is a call one day and text the next harrassing her phone though?
That's actually a really important question that I'd like an answer to ;what does constitute over calling/texting, coz it's something I'm very unclear on. Coz sometimes I'll wait a week or longer to call a chick coz I'm afraid that she'll think i'm being a bit over the top

My personal rule on calling and texting are as follows:

If I say I'll call them, and they say sure, I'll wait until I'm ready to call and then I'll call. If i get a message machine, I'll leave a message. I'll wait maybe another day or something then text, after that, I stop all pursuit of contact with her. If she gives a shit she'll get back to me. Sometimes this can take a while, but it keeps you from looking desperate.

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that's pretty much the same as me...that makes me feel alot better cheers dude