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ShadoWSlash
PostPosted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 11:28 pm 
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Hey guys.. i know very well that to be sucessful with women i can no long put them in a pedestral...neitheir pay for they stuff or offer them things..

But..should i let girls pass a door before i do? should i hold doors for them?

It seems like social value or just as a needy guy who does that to build rapport with girls?

If i should NOT do it, would i look a kid like an asshole?
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 11:47 pm 
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i suppose it depends if you know them or not and the situation....

now im not an amazingly experienced pick up artist but if i knew them id say something like "shit before shovel" just to get a giggle or something
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It depends. I normally still do these types of things for girls, but do not make a big deal of it. I won't run in front of people to open a door for her, but if I am in front, I will hold the door. I would do this for other people as well though, so it is not as if I am simply doing it to impress the girl.

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being a gentlemen will not make you look like an AFC, as long as you do it with everyone.. ie: hold the door open for old people too.. I always open the car door, hold the door etc. for females.. they really respect.. in fact it will make you unique because not to many guys out there do that anymore.
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I totally agree with Sycotic. Sure open the door for her but don't make a big deal out of it or act like you are only doing it because its her.
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Hey guys.. i know very well that to be sucessful with women i can no long put them in a pedestral...neitheir pay for they stuff or offer them things..

But..should i let girls pass a door before i do? should i hold doors for them?

It seems like social value or just as a needy guy who does that to build rapport with girls?

If i should NOT do it, would i look a kid like an asshole?
All things being equal don't do it. It is hard to come across as a gent and not an AFC.
That said if it is your natural style it may cause more problems than it solves to stop doing that stuff. Only you can make that call.
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