Hey guys, just want to ask a few questions about Mystery's method.

Girls do give me IOI's, playing with there hair mainly, but thats it really. Could this just be nervousness on there part. I dont know where to go from there.

1)After I run my opener, do I stack straight into a DHV routine? What sort do you use immediatly after your opener?

2)How long does it normally take you to get into A3?

3)How many and what type of IOI's do i need to move into A3?

4)What do you say/ask in A3?

Thanks very much

Rich08,

Hey buddy! I started out using the Mystery Method so I am with you on this and can help you out. You are right that it could be just a nervous habit. There are tons of IOIs and the main thing Mystery teaches is to look for about 3 of them. I use to count them but at this point and after going out so much I just "feel" the "vibe" of things. I can tell if they are into it or not pretty easily.

You may want to re-read the list of IOIs because there are so many just to remind yourself. But practice will help with the "feel" of things.
After you run the opener you are looking for the social hook point. If you have it then you need to transition. "How do you all know each other?" That way you can figure out the dymanics of the group. I also use, Are you out for a special occasion or just because you deserve it? For night game, I do this because many girls get together in groups for birthdays, bachlorette parties, etc. And who is going to say they don't deserve to be out? LOL.

Then after that you go into the DHV material. If you haven't reached the social hook point you need to stack another opener or routine to get their interest. PS. Don't forget your false time constraint.
The official answer is going to be about 5-10 minutes give or take. Okay so we open the hook to us and are listening to us. We ask, "How does everyone know each other?" We get our answers. Then we transition into some DHV stuff, negs, routines, whatever for A2 right. When we see (3) IOIs then we are suppose to transition to A3.

Well again I go by feel mostly now. Also, its really hard to look for them all because some IOIs are subtle. Most of the time when I watched videos of myself in field by the time I thought I saw three there were many more that passed by that I didn't notice. Anyways each set is different but about 10 minutes.
Again you are looking for about 3 IOIs that are either passive or active IOIs. You can find a list of them that I made once at the link below.

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A2 is Female to Male interest where we are making her attracted to us right? A3 is just the opposite. We are showing we are showing interest to the target. Up until now we have just been ignoring the target mostly, negging, and looking for IOIs.

So now its time to show some interest back to her slowly. You can say anything really. I use to go with something like, "You know your first impression kind of stunk, but now that I've been talking to you for a bit you're pretty cool. Tell me something about you most people wouldn't guess." You are just giving an SOI or statement of interest or two so she knows you do like her.

Glad to help out,

Jon

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Thanks very much for the reply. It helped me alot, so thanks.