Alright, ive known this girl for a while. I am good friends with her and i as well work with her. I finally got the courage to ask her out. She said of course but as friends because she's not ready to date.

I said thats not a problem! and we have yet to decide on a date!
MY question do you think there is a way to pursuade her?
or basically take her out have the most fun ever? and ask at the end of that if she would like to do it again!?


Thanks for the help
Jokerex

To be honest, that's not a great reaction.

It looks like she has already put you in the LJBF's zone.

It deceptive because it seems like you can push for something more down the line but in reality is FUCKING DAMN NEAR IMPOSSIBLE.

The problem is of course knowing her as friends for ages.

I wouldn't hold on much hope for this going romantically.

Keep the date playful and simple. DO NOT mention anything about pushing it to be more THAN FRIENDS with her.

Give her a few hoops to jump through to see if she complies. That way you can if it's going somewhere romantically. But DON'T HOLD OUT TOO MUCH HOPE.

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She already agreed to the date, so you shouldn't have any problems working your routine or whatever you have on her. I think even though she said a friendly date, she is just trying to neg you. If she experiences a fun time on the date, then she will realize that you might be worthy of becoming a partner for her.

Welcome to the friends zone:


Adv:
-She might have friends
-Date rape drug never fails
-You can have a great time as friends

Dis: You have zero(0) chance at this point of time.

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Harsh, but so true. I've yet to meet a person in my lifetime who has turned the friend's zone around.

I myself, have just had my first LJBF's speech. I have learned a shit load and have promised myself, IF there was attraction to begin with I will NEVER fall into that trap again. PERIOD.

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Guys, it is very much possible to get out of the friend zone. However, it takes a while and is extremely difficult. I've only ever done it once before and let me tell you, it wasn't easy.

I did not imply it as being impossible I was just adding in the fact she said in addition that she is not ready yet:

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