Hey guys,

I'm gonna give you a brief rundown of my situation. I've known this girl for 2 years and when we were in graduate school we used to hang out once in a while. I really fucked up the first few times I hung out with her by not making a move when she was clearly into me and it's driven me crazy ever since. We have great chemistry and really enjoy each other's company. She's very comfortable with me (In fact when we go out I usually crash at her place and share the bed with her). But I'm basically a pussy and have never tried anything. I've never done anything stupid like confessed to her how much I like her so I don't think I'm totally fucked into the friend zone yet. A couple months back her friends told me one night that she was interested in me and I should make a move. Alas once again I am a vagina and didn't do anything. So the most recent situation is this:

My brother's wedding is a week from Saturday and I wasn't going to bring a date. However her family had drawn up some twisted plot involving every member of the family (pretty comical actually) to somehow get me to take her to the wedding because they like me so much (I have only met her family once) So now I'm taking her to the wedding and I don't want to fuck this up, it's the perfect opportunity. We're staying in a hotel after the wedding.

Any pointers, input, moves appropriate to this situation or comment would be AWESOME guys. THANKS

PS: Just a little backnote about me, I never have trouble with women. Usually if I see a girl I like I do very well. But something about this one has got me all fucked up.

Thanks again,
John Darby

Ooh tough one.

I think everyone here knows about 'THE WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY' and how important it is to react within it, even with girls who are blindly into you.

In my opinion, I'd say FUCK what she thinks. Make up YOUR MIND. What do you wanna do? Then go for it.

It's going to be difficult though. She's comfortable sleeping with you without any escalation whatsoever. So you don't wanna suddenly spring it on her.

Start escalating early, set her a few hoops to jump through. That's my opinion.

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