Ok I am not really a practicer of PUA anymore per se, mostly because I started to view women differently - subconsiously more as "ratings" and "goals" than people. I did not like this at all. I still come here, however for the occasional opinion since you guys seem to have women psychology down prettty well.

Anyways, I started hanging out this girl I talked to occasionally online. It was just hanging out at first (I had no expectations or was "hitting" on her). We kissed after the 2nd meeting. Anyways, we went out last night and the entire night she had what I was taught by the pua company would be body language indicative of dislike (legs pointed away etc etc, resisting kino). Also, we went back and watched a movie on my bed and she insisted on sitting up on my bed instead of laying down (which was clearly way way more comfortable), and seemed very cold to responses. At this point I am thinking "looks like she is not interested at all, oh well, I would like to keep her as a friend because she is fun to hang out with" After the movie I just decided to kiss her spontaneously and it eventually led to an f-close. Can someone tell me what the hell happened? She was giving signals left and right that she was not in the bit interested in me sexually, then all of a sudden..bam (pun intended). Quite honostly I felt guilty since I am more of a guy to take it slow than bang random chicks left and right - its just my personal preference. After it happened she mentioned she felt really dissapointed in herself in what happened and texted me the next day wondering if we could just forgot that it ever happened to make her feel better. Major buyers Remorse.

So what is with the major inconsistency?

I'm guessing here. So if someone has a better idea feel free to post.


I genuinely think those IOD's were true IOD's. I know you said your were trying to escalate with kino, but because you were subconsciously reading her IOD's I bet you didn't do it with any conviction at all.

What changed was the spontaneous kiss. That was very ALPHA, and deep down all girls are looking for an ALPHA MALE.

That's why you F-closed her.

You're right about buyer's remorse it was probably too early.

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