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PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 1:54 am 
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I had hooked up a few times with a girl, and was hoping she would become a regular but things went stale.

We hooked up on a Saturday night, then again on Sunday, and again on Wednesday.

She told me she would be busy with work after Wednesday and texted me a few days later and told me she finished her work. I texted her to meet up with me that night (it was Saturday night) - she texted back that she was with her friends but would try to get back to me. I didn't hear back from her that night.

I went out with some of my friends that night and she and I ended up at the same bar. The bar was pretty crowded and I didn't see her there. She saw me, but didn't talk to me and texted me the next day "are you mad at me". She was out with some guys, I guess.

I wasn't sure what she was talking about, and since I assumed she was out with her girlfriends, I didn't respond to her text. She called a few hours after texting me and invited me over.

I went to her place and this is where it gets weird. While I was there she was with a female friend and called a guy friend and then told me she forgot she had plans to go swimming. So I went home wondering why she invited me over if she had other plans.

I didn't text her and a few days later she texted again, so I asked her to meet up but she said she was busy. I texted back "I guess you don't want to hang out. Maybe you found someone else to keep your bed warm." She got pissed and we got into a texting argument, but made up. We never met up and a few days later got into another argument and she told me she was seeing another guy. That's pretty much where it ended.

The main problem seems to be that I was not able to meet up with her - any advice?


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 06, 2009 5:08 am 
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>The main problem seems to be that I was not able to meet up with her - any advice?

Well you did hook up with her three times, the question is did you build attraction?

She sounds like a prick tease, I'd get shot of this one.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 12:37 am 
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Thanks tweeby -

Yes - she is a prick tease, I didn't contact her since the last posting and now she is texting me to say she feels bad for what she said, and can't sleep at night, which is basically a complete 180 from her emotional state last week.

I texted her back "thanks for the apology" "no hard feelings" and left it at that.

I could have texted something mean: "Christmas is CANCELLED. Apparently u told Santa u were good.. in bed-and he DIED LAUGHING. Thanks a lot fuckin liar!" (credit Manwhore of RSDNation). But it doesn't seem like there is any point in poking an angry dog - we're out here to have good times, right?


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