me n 12 friends got a house in wildwood new jersey for a week. we are a block from the beach and boardwalk. every night we've been throwing keg parties. Unfortunately we can't seem 2 get any girls to come. I've approached numerous sets of girls ont boardwalk and beach using the "are there any good resturants around here?" opener. and then telling them that me and sum friends are throwing a keg party 2nite and they should come. I give them my number and the address of the house. but so far not one girl has showed up. U guys got any ideas on how i can pack this house with girls?

What you need to do is build rapport, more history with them so they can trust you and you're not seen as "another boy at the beach".

Try playing games or something so they feel they can trust you more. An idea is to do this quickly is by playing physical games with teams.

Such as a football, mixed boys and girls teams.

Just meet girls, dont be too forward to invite them or they'll just think you're inviting every girl

Hmmm.

Hard to pint point without hearing the way the conversations went. I wouldnt let them know where the party is exactly, untill i was ringing them. That way its framed more as a party there invited to, more than a opption they have had since the second they met you. And dont call it a keg party, triggers the immage of togas and beer bongs, which most girls wont go for.

Good luck.

Well since you're trying to attract women to your party, you need to make it sound like a party girls would want to go to. 12 horny guys and a keg in a beach house does not sound like an appealing party to most women.

1. Make girlie drinks. Can any of your friends bartend/mix drinks? That's what women drink. Look up a couple good recipes online for mixed drinks (lava flows, long island iced teas, fuzzy navels, etc etc) and buy supplies accordingly. These drinks are not hard to make, and add class to your party and your friends.

2. Have a theme to your party. Have a beach theme, or a superhero theme, or a costume theme, something to make it more than just a gathering of people for drinking. It makes the party more interesting and gives the girls a reason to go since it's not just an ordinary party.

3. Make it seem like a lot of other girls are already going. Again, girls don't want to randomly show up to a party with just 12 horny guys and a keg. That's not fun for them. Downplay how many guys are in your party and talk up how many girls are coming. Have your most social/handsome guys already there at the start of the party. They are the bait and the hook to make the girls want to stay. Have your other guys (with less social skills and less charisma) arrive periodically through out the night rather than just having all 12 of you there waiting expectantly like hungry wolves waiting to devour the girls.

Send your guys out. It can't just be one guy recruiting for a party. Have all your guys actively working to get girls to come. Your guys I mentioned earlier that are supposed to arrive later? Have them canvas the local bars picking up women there to bring to the party.

4. Finally, it's better to have one really good party at the end of the week then to have a small disappointing party every night. Use some nights to plan and organize your party so that your party will be big, fun, and exciting.

~Antithesis