Hi
I met this cool girl on wednesday and called her on friday where I just left a voice mail. I texted her a few hours latter just asking if she would fancy meeting up for a drink where I got no reply. Well she works just a five min walk from me ( she works the front desk of a restrant) but she doesnt know I work so close. My question is should I just try and call her or actully walk in to act like I am looking for a take away menu and then ask her out and explain I actully came to see you etc.
I may be making things alot more complicated by thinking over it but what are your opions on the bet way to go about contacting her again I also thought about adding her on facebook but dont want to come across to needy so havent added her yet
thanks

First off don't be in such a rush to get this girl. Second give her a chance to reply for pete's sake. You can't aways expect an instant reply back all the time. Thirdly do NOT go to her work place. That just says your desperate. Give her a day or two to reply back. If she hasn't replied back then contact her by phone again.

If you pop up at her work its going to make you seem realll needy ,girls arent attracted to needy guys .

okay... think about it like this.. so you gave a girl you're number at work. She seems pretty nice and maybe even kinda cute. It's been really busy at your work, and you don't even have the time to do anything. 2 days later, you get a call from the girl asking you to to come out and have a drink. You can't, it's nice to get away, but this time you just can't. Then all of a sudden, you get a text from the girl asking you to go out again. You even haven't even responded yet. That's nice but kind of got you thinking like.. doesn't she have anything else better to do. Then you're at work, and look up and see her standing in front of you grinning and smiling.. how are you going to feel then???

I think when we ask these kinds of questions, we need to go to a procedure that we need to abide by. Think about the situation from the woman's perspective first, before we take actions that we might regret and ruin the chances we have. And if you think that you would be creeped out, if a girl like that starts calling you, and stalking you, then you shouldn't do what you're about to do.