This seems to be a simple question, but I want to clear up any misconceptions I might. Basically, I love women, my ardent feelings toward them is indiscribable, but I don't want to put to much importance on them. For example, I want to love them but not need their approval. This seems to be very contradicting. Does anyone have a say on this situation? Or any advice to make sure I don't go down the wrong path.

IMHO, it seems to me that you fear getting to close to a women out of fear of being hurt/rejected. Most all of us have been hurt by a chick a time or two, but thats life. After my ex cheated on me, I got into pua and now know so much more about women and myself. Sometimes you have to put yourself out there and with that comes both risk and rewared.

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u pretty much just got to do it.
its easier said than done of course.
i used to be the same way.
i was basically raised to put women on a pedistal.
and after being hurt enough, kinda what head first said, i learned about the community and now i just know i love women, but i definately dont look up to them for anything but what i need/want (in a non-asshole way of course). u gota just get confidence in yourself and just not put women so far up in ur mind. they are people just like us, they arent some type of gods. u kinda just gotta come up with reasons why they really arent that important

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just have fun and you will never be dissapointed