I've been going out to a lot of places where the women are slightly older than I am. I'm 22, but the women there are usually 25-30. When they ask how old I am, I say 22, but they lose interest soon after. Sometimes I say I have Benjamin Button disease and I'm really 75, but they laugh and ask again. So does anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this? What do you do with women a couple years older than you? Is this a shit test?

The reason why they get turned off by you saying your age honestly is because you view your age as a problem. Age really is nothing more but a number.

dude you could try using your age to your advantage here....

tease them. what you need to be doing is pretending to lose interest in them... oh your 25... its a shame im only 22, usually i don't talk to girls older than me ..... and after the tipical reaction you will recieve follow up with ..... but I can make a special exception for you

depending on how much you can get away with without being slapped...

laugh - haha - did you leave your walking frame at home?

Here is a fact. Females want much older men. I don't care their age. With age comes the idea that you are more dominant, wealthier, wiser, smarter, more mature, more likely to be a better provider, etc. For some strange reason American guys think that females want young guys. Not true. Seriously, I don't care how feminized and fucked up America is...Do you really think any broad wants to work? Do you really think she wants to care about her college classes? Hell no. She wants to shop and spend your money. She wants to stay in nice hotels spending your money, shopping, and if she has enough energy when you come home maybe she might let you get some. You think about sex and they think about spending your money.

This happens a lot to me.

I still dont know how to handle this.
I know when a girl asks my age ...its definate IOI, but when I tell them my age connection vanishes to some extent.

In my last sarging within 30 mins into a set I was getting a lot of IOIs and Suddenly she asked me my age. I felt that if I tell her the truth she might lose the interest,so I lied. Dont know whether its good or bad. But atleast it saved intimate moment and connection for that moment. any advice?

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*If anyone sarging in India, please let me know we can share tips and tricks coz you know Indian girls are hotter and way tougher to close!!!

if I'm 18 I say 69 LOL and they say hahaha no ur not and flrt with them

if I'm 18 I say 69 LOL and they say hahaha no ur not and flrt with them

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I'm 17 and I've picked up chicks who are 19-22. All I do is tease them about their age like Stuck suggested - "Wow, you're 22? that's half of 44.. which is almost 50!". Also sometimes I just lie about my age. I seem to like the older, more mature girls.

Is very true I think.

It seems like alot of us are in the same boat. For a f-close the age isn't important for me, the crux comes when your emotionally interested in an older woman. I let the age difference in my last relationship become a problem (she was older). I think Jav said it best

make them work for it. don't just say your age. say, "How old do i look?" let them guess. throw in some negs when they guess wrong. be playful.

expat_of_love is right about women liking older men but it's not impossible. i doubt most of them are looking to marry that night. have a strong frame, be dominate, let them know you can take charge.

my ex is 31, i'm 25. i banged her last night and again this morning. age really isn't a big deal. this ex is so fuckin gorgeous too, LA 10 for sure.

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How about if I wait six weeks to call. I could tell her I found her number while I was cleaning out my wallet, I can't remember where we met. I'll ask her what she looks like and then I'll ask her if we Fucked. How about that? Would that be money?

Was walking out of the club the other night and started sarging a group who were feelin me within a few minutes.

One of the sisters huggin and rubbin on me.

They asked how old I was, told them- i'm 21, turns out they were 28- so I started using the whole "holy shit where's your walker and life alert" lols, and I also told them that I've had experience with older women as well, in a joking way. Still just not feelin it

I dunno!!

Maybe this is too hard to grasp for some people

Stop making up lines to cover up your insecurities or reasons why you can't do certain things (excuses) and face the problem directly

Come on boy! That is not an age difference, you sound like 22 is old! Im over 30 and still close girls in their 20s.

Jav, yeah, much truth I sense in you. If he sees age as a problem they will too, but for some women age really is important.

If a girl asks my age and I feel like she would care I can just say "Is it important?"

Then you know.