I probably lost my chance with the a girl since we're just good friends with awkward moments every now and then (I know that getting out of the friendzone is borderline impossible, but if you've both talked about it face to face and still remain friends, is it possible to be more?), But for future reference, how do you deal with the over flirty types? The type of girl that always looks to have a fun time, is a natural flirt, is a bit of a princess (high value), has people approach her all the time, isn't really into relationships, only falls for jerks, wants attention, likes being called beautiful, some people call her a whore, etc etc?

her reality: Guy pay attention to me, they give me compliments and will do stuff they ask me.

Just break that reality and she'll be all over you.





PROTIP: get attraction then disqualify.

its hard especially if u are close friends
cuz she knows who you really are
so she can call u on ur shit
i mean the best way is to maybe not see her for a couple months, not talking or maybe a little bit, and when she sees you again, youve "changed"
you can now neg her and make her feel different about you. and then she will be attracted to you, and once you know shes attracted, be that guy she always trusted, cuz u were always him, but this time u approached her differently

cuz who isnt the more perfect guy for a girl but that guy that she trusts so much, the best friend. so once u get her attracted, she already knows ur the right guy to be around so u dont need to work to make her comfortable around you.

another way of putting it, obviously since u are good friends then u guys hang out a lot right?
make her jealous and start gaming hotter girls. bring them around this girl. go on double dates or whatever. get ur friend jealous. she will realize that if u can get with these girls then u are definately the guy she should be with. if not, well shes still ur friend, and u just found hotter babes. haha.
good luck tho.

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Thanks guys
really awesome advice.

We have this weird thing were we get along well one on one, but in a group of friends, we end up talking to other friends, the other day I talked to her for a while before a party we were both going to, then at the actual party we barely talked.

I guess I have things to work on.