I don't know what it is, but most of the girls I run into know SO MANY dudes at these bars, they either grew up with them, etc. This one chick I shot a few non-needy questions to, having my shoulder turned towards her while looking around, and she knew all these people around. Things I asked were like, "So you do (this) now, what did you want to be when you grew up?"
She answered: "A hospital missionary." Ok. I was left feeling like I had nowhere to go w/ it. Even the open-ended questions she had a way to answer with one word and keep looking around.
Then I did the ESP routine, guessing number 7 of course, and she said, "OH MY GOD!!!! FUCK!!! HOWDID YOU KNOW THAT??!!!! (Actually, only one girl all night guessed '8' instead) Let's do it again!!" and I said,
"No, you'll know how to throw me off now, so I can't do it again."
Anyway, I ran little stuff like that on her all night, like,
"You know, decent looking girls are like a dime a dozen, especially in places like this, but what's harder to find are the girls with depth....you know, the girls who actually have some kinda meaning...." and she said:
"Well which one am I (finally showing attention for once, all night)"
"I don't know, you could be both maybe." and she stuck her middle finger up at me.
Anyway, we kinda smoothed things out later, but she was going to another bar w/ her girlfriends, so I was like, "cool, might seeya, take it easy" A buddy who knew here had told me
"Hey man, remember we were having that discusison about being a dick to girls...?... Well , this isn't one of them." Being an outright dick and calling names, and being this confident guy like, "I don't know...are you?" are two different things, I think.
I got to this second bar, long story, anyway, hot bartender who's pretty much a local celebrity bought me these drinks and said she's going to this other bar just before closing (we're talking about 20 minutes before last call) and she said, "You can come with us or stay here and I'll be back."
"How 'bout I come with you girls, then I just go home after that." and she's like:
"Cool!'"
Anyway, nothing could've prepared me for what was ahead......
So we get into this second bar, it's this huge, "beautiful people" crowd, they all work with each other at one of the bigger, classier bars, and they were cut tonight, told to go home b/c it wasn't busy enough, so here I am in this circle of couches with really hot girls who all know each other, and one dude who actually has my same first name..anyway....
I just made casual conversation with all of them, I did the ESP on one of them that was near me and YES, IT WORKED, and talked about Pittsburgh with another one.
When I got out of the bathroom, at last call, one of them said to me: "Well, I just need to say right now that you're an asshole."
"whoa whoah, what are you talking about"
"You lied to us four times"
"huh?"
"You said you knew Natalie."
"uhh, I never said that, I mean I met her here"
"No, you said you knew her"
"Well, I didn't, anyway, what were the other three things...."
"Well..........I mean, .,....they all kinda were connected to that, but yeah, you're a dick."
"Hmmmm, I think the problem might be you, are you alright? Maybe you've had a little too much to drink"
"No, I've hardly drank at all, all I can say is, you better not try to chill with any people in this group ever again, b/c they're gonna know you're a fuckin asshole."
"Nice meeting you
!!!" so I went back upstairs.'
As I was leaving I saw the first two girls I met in this bar all night, one was the Pittsburgh chick, w/ whom I thought everything went well, another was the one the ESP ROUTINE WORKED ON I kinda came up between them and said, "So, you're takin' it upstairs huh?" ---about to leave.
The ESP girl said, "Just so you know, I don't ever say 'Fuck you' (in expaining the ESP story to a g-friend of hers, I praphrased her, by making an impression of her like, "No, fuck you, I don't wanna guess a number, fuck you...!" lol
I explained I didn't really mean she said that.
And she said, "Well, next time I see you, all I can say is....."
and I interrupted, "Oh, don't worry, next time I see you, you're gonna be wasted."
"I don't get wasted"
"No, you're gonna be drunker than you are now, I can guarantee it."
Anyway, 2 bitches, one who started off shy, and turned into a cocky bitch, I mean, I don't know what you're supposed to do...so I hugged one real quick and gave the super-bitch the high five and said "seeya later"
I was getting pointers that I needed to get the fuck outta there.....
Anyway, have any of you PUA's noticed that the "girl clicques" seem to create a different dynamic where they're ready to be assholes to anyone and everyone......?.....
Or are you supposed to be so suave that you can just walk up to a table of five '10's, who all went to high school together and play it all cool like "heeeeey ladies, how're you all doin' tonight?"
and they'll just beg you to stick around...?....
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