so im traveling for a month or so and i wont see my girl for that period. should i tell her i will miss her or what should i say to show that i care but not be leaning on her and display AFC

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

What's wrong with telling her you miss her if that is how you feel?

You don't need to make it a battle to maintain perfect value in her eyes by being fake with her; saying you're going to miss her doesn't mean she's going to think you're a wimp or not alpha.

It actually conveys that you are thinking about her and are concerned about her; a woman is attracted to a man who can protect her and take care of her.

You don't need to do everything by the book; way too many people seem to think showing any emotionally vulnerability is "AFC".

A marriage proposal could be considered an "AFC" behavior (a guy getting down on one knee to give a $500+ ring he paid for to a woman and ask her permission to marry him) yet many women look upon it positivley and consider it one of the happiest moments of their lives.

A little vulnerability here and there is good. It doesn't show your leaning on her it just shows you care.

- Chris

Tell her you miss her, people did before 'The Game' was written and they will for the rest of time. Life should not be lived how the book tells you to live it.

- SC

thanks man thats good advice....will tell her how i feel than and see how it turns out

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"