I don't feel like talking to any girls when I'm around my friends they always seem to neg me in front of the girls or say I don't have a job "wtf" . Then if I say i'm goin to movie with a girl then he says she told him she wanted him go to a movie to. Today she text me ask me and "my" friend are going to a movie with her. That wasn't the plan what the hell happen. Don't mind going to clubs with em but dam need stay hell outta my business.

Tell them it's not cool what they're doing and give them a taste of their own medicine or find a new social circle.


Friends aren't people that are out to hold you back, rather to support you.

Your friends are dicks... My dick is my friend...

Seriously, why bother with people who make your life difficult. You only need yourself and people who are interested in helping their friends. Lose those losers and get new better ones.

At least talk to them, very likely they dont understand how annoying it is...

Ezo

you don't ditch your friends ever. But, you do need to kick their collective ass and knock some sense in to their collective noggin man. Go Bruce Lee on those mutha ucka's

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thats bullshit. one of my friends was notorious for this, so i just started negging him more. cause i know that i have way more material on him than he has on me.

he would always say "...cause your lazy ass doesn't have a job" so i'd just say "who bought MY car and motorcycle? ...now who bought your truck? ...who cleans your room...who buys your clothes...who got you your job"

we are young, 19, and still living at home, but i paid for all my shit and do everything for myself and he knows it. all i had to do was point out that his parents do everything for him and it shut him up.

this is very unattractive to the set that it takes place in front of, but it needs to be done.

Those don't seem like friends. Just saying.

I had a friend in high school that would always seem to steal the girls I was interested in. I realize now that I was too focused on competing with him rather than building attraction with the HB. yes BFdestroying techniques work, but again in those your focus is to build your attraction rather than diminish his.

Your sticking point is your assertiveness. You must (directly or indirectly) make the target aware of your intent and blow out your competition with your own attraction. It's rule #1 you need to be assertive and confident in your actions.

The same thing happened to me, it finally became to much when we were at this one party, so I just talked to them about it and they stopped since, it wouldn't hurt to use some colorful language =]

Yes you do, if they are not behaving like friends.

agreed, also why go out picking up women with guys that cock block, you may not have to ditch them but don't hang with them when sarging.

Your mates may be jealous of you...

When your mates act like dicks it is sometimes a sign that they are resenting you being the shit!!!

so dont take it as a compeltely negative sign..

rock n roll dude!!!! get sarging!!

The only thing u can do is talk to them abt this and tell them mind their own business when u are talking to a girl. Or if u like a particuar girl make sure they know she is off limit.

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Giacomo Casanova

Pull them aside and tell them to quit being jack-offs because it's not cool. If the insist on doing it in front of the girls you are picking-up, make a note to self to not bring them along when you sarge. If you MUST bring them for whatever reason, worse case scenario, you tell them to stop "hitting on you" when they do it in front of the girl.