Hey guys. So let me start... There is this girl I am talking to right now. we have been talking for about 2 weeks. For the first week it was like she couldn't get enough of me. She text me like 100 times a day, and all day... I work third shift. She pretty but not super hot, but she is super nice. the problem is, over the last 4 days it is like she has shut down. She hadn't been playing hard to get, neither have I. I have called a couple days out of the last several, and both time no answer but later a text saying she was exhausted. I find this kinda weird because like two hours later she sent a text saying she missed us talking. the texts have slowed alittle too (which may not be a bad thing.) I have to admit I have been a pussy throughout this whole ordeal, but I don't like feeling I am being tested or agnored. Now what would you pros do to try to fix this situation? If I can't fix it I will surely be back on here for more advice about quickly rounding up another woman.

Thanks for any info.

after reading your situation i have to ask have you pushed it out of just this texting and talking mode??

also, are you looking to turn this thing between you and her into a relationship(gf+bf)
or just someone to have sex with?

Talking is great, but if you wanna actually turn this into a relationship it wont accomplish much on its own. You got to push the relationship further and further
holding hands, kissing, comfort building, etc.
If you just talked for a week and never pushed the relationship
shes not gonna have anything to grab on too. Your relationship will just kinda fall apart and you become that guy who was cool to talk to and i kinda liked him but he just didn't appeal to me because he never pushed forward. She needs something to make her want you more and more besides just talking.

now if you were just wanting to have sex with her, you took too long
and for that i say hold off from her for a little and then start back up again OR just go game other girls.


hope this helped

-Hatch

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well, I got a hold of her today and I knew she had surgery a couple of weeks ago, but what I didn't know was she was on all kind of pain medicine so it turns out she has just been knock out a lot. This was kind of a relieve I quess.

well, I got a hold of her today and I knew she had surgery a couple of weeks ago, but what I didn't know was she was on all kind of pain medicine so it turns out she has just been knock out a lot. This was kind of a relieve I quess.

Nothing wrong with flirty texts, but in the two weeks of "talking" have you been seeing each other in person? If you want to make progression I suggest you drop a little texting and make a quick simple phone call to set up a meet.

man 100 texts a day thats jus ridiculous should jus spend like 10 on her and then 10 on 9 other girls lol

You're not gonna build any attraction through texts. You're probably on your way or already in the friend zone.