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| amoresdecristo | PostPosted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 11:24 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:30 pm Posts: 125 Location: New York, NY | | when it comes to approaching and creating attraction.
because when i approach i my voice crackles and most of the time chicken out, and creating attraction another problem.
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| Locke | PostPosted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 3:27 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Sun Aug 05, 2007 4:00 pm Posts: 1069 Location: New Haven, CT | | Dalex, have you though about going to see a voice coach? If it is not that serious, try drinking more water or tea before going out. It might also just be a hormonal thing, depending on your age. _________________ [color=red:7c51ae7520]email is a better option: thelockestar@gmail.com[/color:7c51ae7520][/size:7c51ae7520]
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| markinthedark | PostPosted: Thu Jun 18, 2009 3:35 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Jun 16, 2009 10:57 am Posts: 65 | | U must learn to relax. one of the most effective way is just to breath in deeply trough your nose and out trough your mouth. This also lowers your voice which makes u sound, and feel, more dominant.
If you're still nervous, always keep in mind that u r probably much smarter than the target, so whatever she'll think of you, she's probably wrong, so no need to worry about anything.
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| desertEagle | PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2009 3:16 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jan 20, 2009 11:51 pm Posts: 153 | | ur probably getting nervous...lol i was actu7ally talking to a girl about this not long ago lol .... now the creating attraction part, i kinda have the same problem... i have a friend who doesnt have game, hes just weird and funny, but for some strange reason girls like him more than me ..... is attraction something ur born with or can it be created?.... this is interesting becasue i ahve no clue.... do some research ....or better yet experiment in the real world, after all, p.u. is just a practice. i know that doesnt answer your question, but its something to think about.
to answer your question id say start talking to ppl you see on a regular basis ( not friends) like the receptionists at a gym or the sexy store cashier. this would make you more comfortable around ppl you dont know and when you see a girl you like its sort of the same thing.
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