Hey all,

Need some advice, anyway there is a HB9 at work which I have had my eye on for quite a while, we never really intereacted but for some reason she opened me and sent me an email out of the blue "Hey How are you doing, did you have a good weekend" I was cocky funny back emailing back "Do you usually email guys you hardly know" etc etc anyway things went well and we had been on a couple of dates and I kiss closed on the 2nd date. She was texting me and emailing me. I arranged a 3rd date for her to come round mine which she texted me that day and cancelled due to her having to be there for a friend who was upset. Anyway we rearranged a lunch date later on the same week which she also cancelled and then texted me after to say she was sorry. I guess I have been having a bad case of Oneitus with this girl over the past few weeks and maybe was a bit needy because I kept on initiating the emails. So I have decided to punish her by not emailing / texting her, but I have just seen her in a meeting and had a quick chat to her. I'm guessing she is no longer interested. I wonder what has changed. Is my game with her over?

RicardoReeke

nah, pretend your busy, run into her occasionally, have a fun convo and you should be well on your way to re initiating attraction.

Don't rush things though. And go see some other women

Thanks Jav, yes i've been holding off the contact and getting involved in other things. Hoping to do a few more sets at the weekend.

Cheers