OK, guys, wanted to run this by ya.
I am in the park. There are these two babes walking around. Both of them look like something you only see on You porn and “estan como trenes” which means they are hb10 in Spanish.
I want to approach, I am running around jogging, they are walking i get a bit of eye contact and one of the babes catches me looking at the others boobs(which are incredible) and starts lauging. Next thing I know is they are jogging around the park anticlockwise. I am running clockwise so every 3 minutes we pass each other. I do 3 extra laps than planned nearly pass out due to heat exhaustion and don’t do the approach My question for you guys, brothers in arms, is only a couple of openers came to mind, and my usual opener, to slow down and ask if the blond worked in the airport etc.
But should I have done the approach regardless of how underprepared I felt? I had a feeling that i was going to bomb but should I have done it anyway? Is it better to get rejected and do the approach and get no further than an opener and walk away than not do the approach and live to fight another day?
Right now, I feel like I played it safe- the last few laps I got no IOIs but part of me is thinking fuck why didn’t I just slow down and say hey, you look really interesting and I couldn’t walk out of the park without just telling you.
Or some other line.
Just wanted to run it by yas
thanx al ot

Just collapse and pretend to go into a coma, then the kiss of life. It works on the Sandlock Kids.

No seriously, you still possibly have another chane as they clearly take care of their body and probably will go running again soon.

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Hey Workaholiic,

first, you really live up to your name. You answer a lot of posts!!

Well, thanks for answering mine dude, but I dont know if I made myself very clear in the original post as to what I was really asking.
First, I was trying to ask the members of the forum if they see the typical girl who seems so far out of league they are on Pluto, then do you do it anyway although mentally you have already screwed yourself? I mean you see her, she is there, looking great but your attitude is way below her so do you forget it until you are feeling better about yourself or just go for it?

This morning after some serious inner game work I got to the following-

a) recalling a post put on a week ago here- "no girl is out of my league unless I put her there" I must work seriously to internalize this truth.
b) Action, no matter how badly is turns, out equals progress.
c) No one gets a girlfriend just staring at a girl- I gotta approach even if I feel scared shitless- if I am gonna learn anything at all.

Either way, I think my worst mistake is that I imagine some terrible scenarios before the approach and turn these babes into monsters when 9 times out of ten they probably wouldn't resort to being nasty- at worst ignore me. so why should I care?

a) EU legislation allows me to take a lunch break! b) I can take several hour lunch breaks like Don Draper if I want.

Very key point my friend! We always predict things to go bad, it is just the mindset we were raised up on, if we eat too many sweets we will resemble Rick Wallers kids, if we dont study hard enough at University we will get a 2:2!

Through using inner game and affirminations and taking action as you have said above we can conquer anxiety of being rejected.

Most girls are lucky to meet everyone on this forum as we have the tools and skills to interest, seduce and take them to new highs that will be impossible to most men that have no idea to pleasure a women without providing them there bank details.

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Its funny I was thinking the other day how joggers in parks always tend to stick to the same route or direction no matter the weather or time of day.

Why not stop as they are running towards you and start with a polite excuse me. Wait for their attention before confidently explaining to them why its much better to run around the park clockwise e.g. the view of the church is much better, the sun is not in your eyes etc. (shouldn't be hard to think of a few things). The chances are they will disagree either playfully or aggresively, either way stick up for your intital postion and list a few more reasons. Hey presto this should lead to some banter and conversation. If you run out of reasons resort to CF "because its the way I run 'round". If they are HB10s they will like the fact you are not behaving like a typical ass kissing AFC. If you play it well enough I predict they will eventually ask you your name - an IOI. Make them ask for it, don't offer it.

In the unlikely even that they agree with you when you start to run again they will be running with you.

As for your state of mind you need to be confident, cocky and funny.
Tell yourself:
1. I'm the prize (read "the Game")
2. Everything I do is attractive to them - they love it. (read "the Game")
3. They should feel privelaged that they jog in the same park as me let alone will be approached by me
4. You are king of the park.
5. Everything you say is funny. If they don't get its because they are uptight.

Alternatively you could try and adapt the stripboy supermarket opener:
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e.g.
Pass them once, eye contact smile. Next time stop and say excuse me politely, wait for their attention (witout figetting) say
"I need your opinion. I've seen this girl running in the park, she's kind of cute and she smiled at me, my question is, we're in park running, are women really open to starting a conversation in a park?"
They will probably smile and say: "Yeah, it's kind of something in the back of our minds when we show up here"
You say: "Really? So I should just say hi and introduce myself to her?"
They say: "yeah, that's usually all it takes"
You say: "Cool, thanks" and start running again without looking back
Next time you pass them in the park, make eye contact, and approach:
"Hi, I'm bla bla and just got some great advice to just come up and introduce myself to you"

Hey Halcyon!!!

cool inner game attitudes you got there dude!
and also the opener strimpboi wrote on another thread is seriously wicked!!
You're right, it could easily be used in this situation.

I think it is amazing how easily openers can be adapted to different situations.
I used the camera opener on the beach today and it worked a treat but after using the opener the ladies hubby turned up out of the blue so it kinda killed my fiesta.

but tomorrow will be hitting the beach again and my camera batteries are on charge as we speak, also in the evening the park. Will let you know the reaction I get.