Hey, i have a really good friend who is female, and we flirt all the time at school and when ever were out were continually hugging and holding hands, and even better on a few occasions we have shared a bed where we have been just snuggling...
i think she knows i like her but i have never said it to her, and i want to get to the next level with her but not sure how to approach it... i have never really have tried to make a big move but was just wondering on how to go by it seeing that shes knows me well and hard to find help on it
thanks.

Kiss her during one of those "snuggling" sessions or a moment when the two of you seem to be getting along especially well or flirting a lot. Her reaction will be the indicator as to how into you she is. If she seems mad/upset laugh it off or joke your way out of it.

yeh im planning on next to, i have read the game from neil strauss and im going to try apply grimbles finger technique were stroked along the arms and neck then moves on to the face and lips and waits for her to suck the finger

also going to look for some of the IOIs i have researched

thanks

Hi!
I wanted to kiss my female best friend.
I knew that she was attracted to me. ( there were a lot of IOIs)
This happened today.

We went to have some ice cream and so on. She enjoyed the whole thing. ( a lot of kino from her and IOIs )
So at last we sat on a desk.
Then she had to go because of her bus.
She told it to me. – then I told her to go.
After that she stand up. Than she is in front of me she hesitated so I thought that she want something. So I sand up then she asked me if I go or not. I told her that I go.
(1 or 2 second silence)


Then I tried Mystery kiss routine ( with a little difference):
“What is it? You wanna kiss me?”
She told : “noooooo!”
Than she bursted into laughter.
Then I turned away a little and I told “I didn’t say you could. But it seemed like you have something into your mind.”
She just laughed and laughed and than she told me “idiot”
I acted confidently the whole time this was the only time when I didn’t.
Then the word just sliped out of my mouth: “Yes”

Then we laughed 3 anodther sec.
And than I told her that I go soon
then Goodbye

She seemed happy after this thing. At least when I looked back.


This is my story if anyone have any advice please send it to me.

How should I approach her later? What did I wrong? What did you do in my place in that situation?

thanks for the answers!

yeah that happens to me heaps to ay
so many IOI's like holding hands, hugging and stuff but it never happens

gonna keep persisting though,
for now im testing out the game in the field this weekend and see how i go!

hi
I think that this was one of the good ways to do it. I used this routine in order to avoid rejection. So even if I fail I can continue doing the thinks.

I already had better opportunities when I didn't do it and my advice is do it as soon as you feel you can. The longer you wait the worse it will be. Even if you are rejected and it doesn't feel good it will be better later and you won't think about that what could have happened if I try.


And about my situation:
(We are in the same class ( or group) at the university.)

I read books about body language so I was sure and I am still sure about that she is attracted to me. (there was a way too much IOIs and her friends (all of them girls) all likes me and I am the most dominant person in that group always lean back I talk fucking much and so on...)
And for instance when I went to buy some clothes she followed me than after 20 minutes she told that she have to go the bus. I said her "Ok then go" She repeated once again and said "Ok". And I continued looking for clothes and I didn't look at her at all.
Then she left.
After that she went back after a 5 minutes. And she told me that "She had no place to sit on the bus so she came back" ( with his hand covering her mouth and with looking away) So it was just a foolish reason in order to be with me.

Maybe when I tried to kiss her she was too suprised because I got the wrong time or at least I think this.
and I know I will pick up other girls too
I have enough to choose from

haha she is frothing on you!
yeah at rsl last night i have an old friend who is about a hb8. and i was catching up with her just mucking around on the pokies negging her saying she was bad luck in a cocky/funny way. then i did the esp thinking game with her where she has to pick number from 1-10 and luckily she picked 7.
she was shocked then i did the 5 lies game and the stakes was a kiss on the cheek, obviously she lost i got kiss, then i challenged again and some how won again another kiss, then i said i have to find my friends and she gave me a hug good bye, then i asked wheres my kiss, then i got the kiss close.
so semi succesfull night in the field first time testing pua techniques...


as for the friend i sore her tonight, she was drinking i was sober and we went to a party but she was being a flirt so didnt really pay much attention, dropped her off home later got a good bye and that was it..

such a hard girl to crack
what are some good body language books?

Hi

My first and favourite book about body language:
BODY LANGUAGE How to read others thoughts by their gestures
- ALLAN PEASE





(but if you want more you can find: you look for "Social Interactions"
at the isohunt and you can find a lot of *.pdf about body landuage and other managment things too and of course the book I metioned earlier)

yeh thanks mate ill have a look out

need a book on how to be mature around ppl you like cos i always piss her off by doing stupid things
haha

lol it takes some courage but just do it. Never be scared to do what you feel you want. She wont hold anything against you by doing so.

Just go for it man. Grab your balls, and kiss her.

Do it on a high point when both of you guys are being fun and flirty. Don't do it on a low point like after she says her dog just got run over or something.


This is assuming she likes you back of course. However, if she is holding your hand, I doubt she would turn you down for a kiss.


S

good news

got with her last night
after a party went to hers and we chilled for ages and eventually i run the 5 lies game and got the kiss on the check, (was the bet if she lost) turned into a hook up which was sickk.

any ideas on how i could maybe take relationship to higher level?
i see her at school everyday so just anything would be helpfull
thanks