So I've been chilling with my friend Sai for about 5-6 weeks now, Great guy, Its awesome that we met. We're both ... "new" to sarging though he knows a bit more than me, we know alot of theory but well that's not enough to make us good lol.

I've a problem though, he is able to open sets, and I cant, he's open much more sets than me, in fact I've only open 1 set in those 5-6 weeks and he's been a great wing, encouraging me alot and trying out excercises. One time we spent 1 hr talking to a HB8 (which is far more than what I've talked to in the past) but he open her XD. Today I actually lost 20 bucks lol (made a bet with him to open atleast 1 set or lose 20 bucks, go figure) Now when it gets to the point of actually losing money over opening someone, that's fucked up. Is there something like Social Anxiety? The reason I ask is because 3 nights ago one of our excersices was to do kareoki and well I did it quite easily, but when it comes to girls, it's very freezing. If there is SA how do you overcome it??(no shrinks ) anyone with a guide or something, or book, I'd love to read it

I have opened a few girls (at work lol), and we're uh aquaintances really, but they're from another side of my job, so it kinda releaves the anxiety...

Also, anyone know how to contact the guys from season 1 & 2?

PS: Dont judge me too harshly!

EDIT: Bad articulation of sentences for the lose! Thanks for pointing that out man<3

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ROFL When i first started reading this I thought you wherer dating this guy I was like WTF....
Anyways sounds like your in your head to much.
Don't dought yourself they all think your sexy so why should you worry about opening them.

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Do you mean you can't start talking?
or do you mean you get shut down every attempt.

Your approach anxiety no matter what the case is, is extremely common among we AFC's and sPUA's.

I liked this game.. one thing you can try.
Get a list of cheesy pick-up lines and try them on different girls. Just as a game. You know you can't get anywhere with them so it takes off the pressure of being "rejected".

Do this with some friends and see who can get the worst "rejection". its fun

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