This isn't really a "newbie question" and I suppose it belongs in another category but I'm hoping for maximal results. I was just wondering...what motives people in this community? Obviously as it is a PUA forum, attracting women is important to us. But beyond that, in regards to your goals outside of attraction (meaning your job, ambitions, dreams...excluding the dream of getting with women, etc) what motivates you? Is it wealth? power/respect? or becoming successful to attract women?

I hope I'm being clear. I mean what drives you in regards to your work/career.

none of the above


I want to enjoy every step of my life and interact with as many people as possible.


In temrs of specifics: Retire at 39 with 20 years military experience in engineering and piloting.

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The only thing I want is to be able to approach all the women I want to approach and to do this in a decent way with no stress and no fear of rejection. The ultimate goal is to find the 'best' possible women out there for me and marry her. So I am not really in this community to get laid as much as possible nor do I need the material here for getting power or a better job. I certainly don't need the material to get respect from people. Frankly, I don't care what other people think about me. It is nice if people respect me, but if they don't respect me, I don't care.

Living.

hate

without trying to sounds like a sith lord hatred fuels everything I do.

I hate who I used to be so I joined the community.

I hate 9-5 jobs so I did a degree in music.

the list goes on, weirdly it is not a bitter hatred it is more I don't like this lets fix it sorta pro-active hate good stuff