Girl at work + ex at work..... i know i'm asking for trouble



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 2:24 pm 
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So recently i've grown attracted to a girl at work, (I work in a jeans store part time [uni student] small store, bout 5 people working per day, all close together). About 8 months ago in November i started going out with another chick from the same job (i didn't ask her, she asked me) Started out fine but i realised i didn't like her after bout 3 months, we broke up, she turned out to be a psycho bitch, etc etc, now i just avoid her and only talk to her when necessary at work.
I know the saying is don't date co-workers but whatever, i haven't learnt my lesson.
Now I genuinely like this other girl, we've worked together for nearly a year, i never really got to know her until recently. So I've been doing all the usual shit, i'm good with touching i'm naturally a dickhead so cocky and funny is sorted, I constantly catch her looking at me, i can make her laugh, and hold conversation fine.
Although, she has once or twice said the name of her old ex bf, reluctently though i can see it in her face after she mentions his name, so i'm not that worried about it. There is also the point that psycho ex will eventually talk to HB, and will no doubt try and lie/manipulate/generally act like a bitch.

Anyways, the point is, she's going on holiday to europe in about 1 month (for about 3 weeks), and we've both got university exams in 1 and a 1/2 weeks, should i ask her out before she goes to europe? Or should i build a connection and wait until she comes back? It's kind of puzzled me?


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 9:16 am 
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Well i fucked that up bad.

She gave me a lift home from work, i asked her out to dinner, denied, on the basis that she's friends with psycho ex. It's fucked. I think i have a genuine connection with her, and she either feels bad because of my psycho ex, or she's just naturally really friendly and flirty.


Is there anyway to neautralise the ex situation so she doesn't feel bad? (keep in mind there is absolutely no way for me to be friends with the ex)


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:30 pm 
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anyone?


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 1:47 pm 
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Okay dude.
This is what I think you should do.
UMMM yea fuck that bad move all around.
Don't even try.... The fact of hooking up with workers is a bad idea.
Since crazy cyko bitch knows you she ahs told everyone that you are crazy in fact.
Those girls you work with should have been kept on a social proof circle.
That's how I do it at least. Hooked up with allot of her friends to anyways....
If you really think you should hook up with this girl then just fucking find out what the deal is.
Really dude I've been trying to figure a way around cyko but I’m not seeing it.
Bro's b4 ho's lol girls are the same.
You gata do some hard work to get around it.
The only thing I can think of is isolate her and try to work it out maybe find out what she thinks of you and give her a reason to think of you as a boyfriend.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 4:01 am 
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Well she's definetely keen. No doubt about it.

Here are the problems though:

We both have uni exams in 1 week.
She's going on a month holiday to europe in 1.5weeks.
She's got an ex bf in europe.
Psycho bitch has elevated her psycho level, now she's stalking my friends and friends of friends on facebook, i'm gonna make a complaint and try and get her banned.


I've talked to her occasioanally on facebook, but i refuse to initiate conversations, i'll wait for her to talk to me (i figure that's a good move)
The problem as i see it is she's just not 100% over her old bf in europe, I think she seriously wants me but wants to keep me at arms length so she's got a clear conscience if anything happens while she's over in europe.

at the moment i'm just thinking what sort of things can i do to keep her thinking about me on her trip?


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 6:47 pm 
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I tend to agree with everyone here...

Hooking up with coworkers is a bad idea.

There are too many women out there to shit where you eat if you get my drift.

Although if this is truly what you want go for it.

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