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PostPosted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 2:43 am 
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Here's the situation

IM in high school to start, and I thought i had been sucessful at gaming every girl in my world lit class which consisted of an HB8 2HB7's and HB6 an HB 1 and 2. Everyone loves and is friends with the HB 1 but she looks like a damn monkey and im mean monkey this bitch is ugly. Well i became infatuated with one of the 7's and everything was going well until i went to this party. At the party the 1 got drunk and began to confess her undlying love for me and started and try'ed to push me into sex with this ugly thing. I rejected her and began to ruin my life apparently. Now In class none of the girls talk to me and my new name has become ASSHOLE to about half the females at school most of the girls are saying that im mean and that they hate me. Even today i walked 2 miles in the rain right as im bouta turn on mu street this bitch drove by, in the puddle purposely got me soaked all because i rejected a fugly girl i never talked to? This is annoying because all of my hard worked rapport has been thrown out the window and now i walk down the halls getting into verbal altercations with the most random people. This is driving me crazy literally and my parents are thinking of sending me to a therapist and my affirmations & self hypnosis won't even help with my sour mood.

MY question is is the rest of my High School PUA career over or is there a way to salvage this situation? and the HB 7 she's actually like the only girl ive crushed on since like 7th grade and i really wanna go out with her how would i go about making up with her? How could i put these people in place and how can i start to feel better about myself? How is it possible for one ho to move 1/4 a sohpmore class against one person mind u theres like 600 student?


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 5:17 pm 
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Here's the situation

IM in high school to start, and I thought i had been sucessful at gaming every girl in my world lit class which consisted of an HB8 2HB7's and HB6 an HB 1 and 2. Everyone loves and is friends with the HB 1 but she looks like a damn monkey and im mean monkey this bitch is ugly. Well i became infatuated with one of the 7's and everything was going well until i went to this party. At the party the 1 got drunk and began to confess her undlying love for me and started and try'ed to push me into sex with this ugly thing. I rejected her and began to ruin my life apparently. Now In class none of the girls talk to me and my new name has become ASSHOLE to about half the females at school most of the girls are saying that im mean and that they hate me. Even today i walked 2 miles in the rain right as im bouta turn on mu street this bitch drove by, in the puddle purposely got me soaked all because i rejected a fugly girl i never talked to? This is annoying because all of my hard worked rapport has been thrown out the window and now i walk down the halls getting into verbal altercations with the most random people. This is driving me crazy literally and my parents are thinking of sending me to a therapist and my affirmations & self hypnosis won't even help with my sour mood.

MY question is is the rest of my High School PUA career over or is there a way to salvage this situation? and the HB 7 she's actually like the only girl ive crushed on since like 7th grade and i really wanna go out with her how would i go about making up with her? How could i put these people in place and how can i start to feel better about myself? How is it possible for one ho to move 1/4 a sohpmore class against one person mind u theres like 600 student?
Hmm well this is an interesting predicament. Judging by your language and description of the HB 1, it sounds like you weren't especially kind in rejecting her. You don't get that type of lynch mob reaction out of girls unless you did something especially mean. Girls is they have a group mentality and they look out for each other. If you treat one of them badly word will get around quickly-- especially in high school. That's what happened to you. You even said it yourself:
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Everyone loves and is friends with the HB 1...
What did you think was going to happen by hurting a girl everybody likes? I'm not saying you should have slept with her, but you could have let her down gently and discretely so she still had her dignity. Your writing really reflects your attitude; I'd bet the next day you told all your friends how an "ugly monkey" tried to get with you and had a good laugh at her expense.

You should take this as a lesson to learn that all people deserve respect, even girls you don't find attractive. Do you see the parts a highlighted in red? Your attitude towards women needs a lot of work. I think you probably deserve the situation you are in, so I'm not going to tell you how to fix this just yet. Use this time to reflect on your behavior and how to improve yourself as a human being. You've been feeling ostracized and outcasted for a few days since the party. The HB 1 probably feels this way every day because of guys like you. Think about it.

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 6:28 pm 
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What did you think was going to happen by hurting a girl everybody likes? I'm not saying you should have slept with her, but you could have let her down gently and discretely so she still had her dignity.
This is very true. Everyone is networked somehow, and you never know how an action towards someone will affect others. It's like if someone was messing with one of your boys, you would most likely take your boy's side if a fight broke out (I'm not condoning violence or saying you should resort to it if it can be avoided). The girls in your class are going to defend her before you, especially if you did let her down in a rude manner (this is pertaining to high school not necessarily when you are older). A way to let her down with actions not words is to just avoid being in awkward situations with her... at a party, surround yourself with people and be busy so you can't be pulled away.
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You should take this as a lesson to learn that all people deserve respect, even girls you don't find attractive. Do you see the parts a highlighted in red? Your attitude towards women needs a lot of work. I think you probably deserve the situation you are in, so I'm not going to tell you how to fix this just yet. Use this time to reflect on your behavior and how to improve yourself as a human being. You've been feeling ostracized and outcasted for a few days since the party. The HB 1 probably feels this way every day because of guys like you. Think about it.

~Antithesis
I'm not sure how you let her down so I can't say it was disrespectful or I'd be out of line, but if it was, maybe you wouldn't be in this situation if you would have handled it differently. If you don't mind me asking, how did you go about it?


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 2:45 pm 
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well obviously i didn't call her a bitch when i rejected her i called her a bitch when she called me an asshole and when i got a mud all over me the other day. I tried to let her down easy and i will quote her"Fried i love u soooo much thats why i came n got drunk here for you whoooo i just love u will you have sex with me ohh plese i want us to have kids" My response " shai your a nice girl an all but ur drunk wheres sasha she'll take you home" i would never disrespect a person if they didn't hurt me first thats not my style im church grown and understand that curse words are inappropiate but i was mad man


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 9:04 am 
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Ah, sorry perhaps I came off as a little harsh. I can't imagine why all the girls in her class would suddenly hate you and call you an "asshole" and try to splash you with mud, especially since you rejected her so nicely by saying:
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shai your a nice girl an all but ur drunk wheres sasha she'll take you home
You are a credit to chivalrous gentlemen everywhere. It's obvious why "Fugly-Bitch-Monkey-Girl-Ho's" swoon over you. :wink:

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 9:25 am 
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Judging from the way you rejected her, the only logical explanation as to why her friends reacted so strongly is if she went and exaggerated about it to her them. Perhaps to draw sympathy or for revenge.

I guess this is one of those things that just happen, tough luck bro :(
For now just look on the bright side, things always smooth over in time :)


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