hey everyone

almost every time i am in a situation with people I am the outsider

I am the guy who tries to make a joke and nobody laughs or looks away

I am the guy who everybody thinks that he wont manage, like at a sports game (ice hockey) I made a goal and others were like "omg he made a goal, I thought he would miss"
like nobody expected me to score. Nobody expects me to win
I could call myself a Screw Up Artist and it would fit others perception of me

I am also daydreaming a lot, I think I have ADD

I would really, REALLY like to be an insider. Or actually to be accepted and liked for who I am

I dont know how, thats why I am asking for help.


please help me.

_________________
Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

First off work on your inner game as your lack of confidence is lacking a lot. Secondly find things that you are good at or at least into and can do as a hobby. Because it sounds like you haven't found who you are yet as a person. Thirdly work on your social skills. Talk to random people in public and just make chit chat with them. And pick up on how they communicate and what have you.