So, not to come off like a douche, but I know I'm damn sexy and good looking. I've never had the best confidence, but most girls I become good friends with or have been in a relationship with (the one's that are really hot; I have impossible standards) usually say something at one point like "I was intimidated by your looks at first" or "you could be a model" or "you're the hottest guy I know". Yes, I know, I sound like a douche.

But... I'm 27 and I look like I'm 17. I get carded for magic markers.

I've heard a lot of girls say stuff like "oh, my friend thought you were really cute, but she was like "is he even 21"". I've definitely missed some opportunities with gorgeous women because of this, and also cause I kinda am still a kid at heart.

Any advice about how to play it off? I find seriously overdressing (like suit and tie at a punk show) is a good way to get around it, but that's about all.

Yes, I am a douche, I know.

Im also interested in the reply to this thread if anyone has answers ? I also have a baby face. Without hijacking this thread just wondering, baby face = cute guy etc etc still can get girls. But what about the girls that want a guy that they feel can handle them etc like dominate them sexually, i feel the baby face limits this somtimes and is there any way to get around it, escpecially with the baby face + dimples smile lol.

I guess you to show them dominance with your personality..
Who cares if they want, show them who IS the real man (and not the one who looks like that) and they will be atracted to you. Like mystery said "why should i care about what woman like?".

Also baby face is a gift man..u have to see it that way, you can aproach MUCH easier since its not treathning

PS: i have a babyface too

Good Luck!

Shadow

Thanks for the response fellas. Helps out. I guess I should also mention that I'm 6 feet and a wiry 155 lbs, which makes me a skinny ass mofo as well. No matter how much I eat or work out I stay under 160.

Yeah, the personality goes a long way. But some chicks (alpha females especially), and I completely understand this because I'm the same way about a certain female body type, just want a thick dude. Whether he's buff or works out or is tall or not doesn't matter to some women; they just want him to have a thick torso. That's just my observations I guess, and possibly a little bit of insecurity.

Oh well, didn't slow me down last night. You guys all rock. This shit really works haha

Try and turn it around and use it as a way to game. Use it as an opener or whatever.
I have a baby face too but trust me, you just gotta show confidence and maturity.

Alpha Females dont exist in our speccies , we are not wolfs man

i know how you feel. i must agree with personality--with maturity and confidence. i actually look 5 years younger than i am, but damn you're talking about 10 years.

I look quite a bit younger than i am, it definitely has way more positives than negatives. If I wanna look older I'll usually just grow a bit of facial hair.

Yeah, your attitude will completely override your looks. I'm Asian, 6', 155 lbs, too (I get the bonus stigma of people assuming I have a small cock). If you act like a man that has his shit together, no girl is really gonna dick you around for your looks unless you're going for cougs. As an added bonus, think of how fucking ridiculous it's going to be for us in ten years when we look our age now, but have all that experience. Plus, haven't you noticed that the desirable women have child-like facial features? Really start looking at the girls people say are cute and see if they don't look like teenagers, too. You let bullshit disqualifiers like this in your head, it's gonna poison your game.

Everything that's wrong with you makes you unique.



BE FUCKING PROUD.