Did you ever talk to a girl and you're working on her, and then some douche bag guy comes along and butts into the conversation uninvited. Then after a moment he asks you to do a favor for him, and you don't even know him or you don't give a shit about him and he's not your friend. They just do that to lower your status, don't they? Next time that happens, I'm gonna flat out tell the guy "no, I'm not going to do that" with a "piss off" kind of attitude. What do you think of that? Should I be concerned at all about the girl thinking that I'm not nice or that I'm rude? Or would she like that I'm being honest and assertive?

I don't know what favor this guy is asking of you, but I think getting pissed off is the wrong idea. You should be able to have composure and control of your emotions. Such a simple request does not warrant a rude reply.

Instead, you could politely tell the guy "normally I would, but as you can see I am talking to a very pretty lady at the moment, sorry."

Bonita nailed it, also look into .... dammit can't remember the real word micro communication maybe. Basically dominate him using body language subtle things to let him know and the girl know he is your bitch not vice versa.

Things like the dominant handshake, butting in when he is near the end of sentences (I hate that I do this 24/7), making him move by hinting movement to him other bit and pieces. Remember it is a thin line between dominance and being an asshole.

But long story short remain unaffected emotionally you are talking to the girl not him you are better than him so logically you will get the girl.

him:-butts in-hold this
You: -to girl- wow someones mum didn't teach them manners, what do you say?
him: -generic asshole response-
etc etc etc he tries to hard and gets blown out (quite often by the girl)

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-butts in to ask her a favor

-you hit em back with something along the lines of...

'ah come on sport! youre a big boy! you cant handle that on your own?'

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Dude, you NEED to learn how to run game around guys because they're gonna be there when you're talking to girls. If you can't deal with men, then you're hooped.

Like Bonita said, the key is to stay chill at all times, even if he gets pissed off and tries to pick a fight with you; even if he DOES throw a punch at you, stay calm and deal with it as you will, but don't get pissed off or explode cause that's immediately gonna make YOU look like the douchebag.

I always just try to make every guy I meet at the bar my best friend, or I at least treat him as if he is my best friend, even if I think he's a dick or a douche. Pat him on the back, smile at him, call him "buddy" or other friendly things and laugh like you think he's a cool funny guy. All those things make you look like the cool guy because you're welcoming and friendly to other people and you show that you can get along with anyone even if he is cramping your game. THEN, all you do is smile and shrug at him and tell him you can't help him out for whatever reason. I have no problem saying that I can't help a guy out because of any number of stupid and seemingly embaressing things because the girl knows what I'm doing and the guy doesn't have a fucking clue how to respond, so he just walks away and then me and the girl laugh about it after while she looks at me with as close to aww and worship as a guy can hope for.

For instance, an old buddy of mine taught me a trick that makes it so that no one can squeeze my hand and hurt me when we shake hands. A lot of guys will try to squeeze your hand so hard that it hurts and you cringe and look like a pussy, but with this trick it never happens. A guy tried to do it to me while I was at a club with a girl I was with at the time and I just smiled at him and patted him on the back while I told him that he's really strong and must work out a lot cause he's got a firm grip. He ended up making a fool out of himself trying to impress my girl by telling us that he plays AAA hockey for a team that lost in the first round of the playoffs. I showed him my handshake trick and now I look like a really nice cool guy, while he looks like even MORE of a chump.

Give the nice guy approach a try with the added confidence and knowledge that you learn here and I promise you'll get results that all the other "nice guys" don't get.