Alright so heres the scoop. I am going to be a junior in college, and am on the board of the econ cub. Now, i am in business so its not that I am a huge dork or anything, just not had a lot of luck with women. I am an average looking guy, whose confidence is growing.

Anyways, last year this girl got onto the board of the same club. She is an 8-8.5, anyways, she seems pretty chill and I definitely want to chill with her, though in this instance I would be seeking a relationship. We will both be in the college town this summer, and will probably meet up at least once or twice to set some stuff up for the club.

I want to ask her out, but I feel like I gotta be real careful on this one, because we are gonna have to work together for the next 2 years, and if she isnt feeling it, its going to be way awkward.

Info on her, shes pretty laid back, drinks but doesnt smoke, is a figure skater, used to be a mormon but kicked that habit in college, so she is still working her way into breaking the rules from time to time.

I am into breaking rues and smoking and drinking and stuff, but I keep it under control. I just cant always read women and when to make a move, but I have been getting a lot better and having some serious success lately.

So, any advice on how to turn a work meeting into a date?
(by the way, this is definitely a little oneitis, but i really feel like I could go out with this girl, so I dont care, I leave the playing for run of the mill girls)

i'm in college myself and i can relate, although theres a lot of material that can be applicable in college there are differences in a university setting. more than likely you'll see the girls again and college game can be a bit quicker at times (especially with kino).

i'd say be careful and slowly begin this seduction process. i don't know your entire situation with her whether you've hung out before and what not, but i'd start with something simple and social like asking her to pre-game with you and your friends before you go out or something along those lines. that way it'll be a comfortable, relaxed, and social setting and it would allow you to relax and show her your a fun guy to be around which is real important in college from what i've experienced so far (i'm going to be a junior myself).

better yet you can ask her to bring her friends too, proving yourself worthy to them is almost just as important and that way you can give your buddies a chance to get laid too, which is always good. that way you can give them all a little attention and not just focus on her thereby making you seem like the "prize" and not her, girls are very competitive and worse case scenario you now know a few more girls on campus networking socially as you know is huge in a college setting.

i'd say start there, by casually hanging out, going to parties, going to the bar etc. and not worry at least for the immediate future about serious dating. especially if your going to be working together for some time in the future, you want this to be a gradual process and along the way you can feel her out and see where she is in her life, you don't even know if she's looking for anything serious and if that's what you want you better make sure your both on the same page and that she really is someone you can see yourself with.

whoa i just wrote you a book but i feel you on this college can be different than going out to clubs and getting random girls. hope this helped a little, good luck sir let us know how it goes for ya.

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