i'm getting tired of this should i end it?



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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 4:28 am 
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so here's the things that this girl does do:

1. talks to me a lot on facebook and texts me a lot.
2. she's really intrested in me, and makes me laugh a lot.

lol

her's what makes me mad:

1. she doesn't ever call me, and everytime i tell her to call me she doesn't
2. she doesn't ever want to go have lunch or anything
3. she always says she's really lazy

she goes to my school and is in one of my classes. should i just end it?
or give her a final chance?

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 4:51 am 
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Tell her you're done with this texting bullshit and if she wants, she can see you in school. She's just using you for validation, flattering herself, without having to give you anything physical. So stop the texting. I doubt that she really likes you in a romantic sense. There's lots of girls who pull this same shit.


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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 5:39 am 
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touche Billionaire, I think she is leading you round like a puppy and has no intimate feelings for you at all she is probably texting and chatting to other guys at the same time. Also stop being a cheap bastard if you want to talk to her call her don't ask her to call you.

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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 6:51 am 
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hmm, so i did freeze her out for a couple of days and she was being really nice and stuff and i could kinda tell she missed talking to me. i can do that again, how should i deal with it when i talk to her again if i freeze her out?


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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 8:14 am 
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Hate to say it but these guys were right.. you almost got to the point where you would have been best to break it off. But you made a good move by freezing it and the result would be her missing you.

Very important, remember to not communicate you depend on her. Always have something better to do, whether if your hanging out with her or not.

Another thing, when your around her don't be overly nice. Tease her/make fun of her if you want any chance of getting into a relationship and not just being another friend.

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I had the same thing for the last month. I was just used for validation after she split with her ex. Gave her attention, which got her confidence back. She told me she liked me etc and then went back to seeing her ex ex bf. :lol:

an that is why Im back on this forums after a long absence(my old account got deleted. Now looking to start fresh and with the basics. Going to enjoy the journey!


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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 12:07 pm 
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mbkb24 Freeze her out until she actually talks to you in person at school.


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Have you tried talking to her at school?
I think you should pretty much stop texting her.


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PostPosted: Sat May 30, 2009 10:03 pm 
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yea actually we talk at school too, and i've actually hung out with her once or twice, she was happy with that but whenever i ask her to go do something she keeps on saying no, and also she says "i'm sorry" whenever she can't go somewhere with me. how should i reply to that? and also if i freeze her out, i'm pretty sure she won't try to talk to me at school because she's kinda shy i think. anyways i just wanna thank all u guys for the feedback :)


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PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 1:16 am 
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Sounds like she's avoiding physical escalation.
Shy girls are difficult.
Probably not worth the trouble.
Probably should move on.


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PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 4:16 pm 
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Mbk This post sounds just like another one of your post in fact I'm willing to bet money the girl in this post is the same girl in your other post below

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I always though your last response about "getting the girl " sounded like a lie. Now I'm sure of it.

You sound like this girls stalker just leave her alone

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