Sry this is so long, thanks to any that read it.

idk whats up with this chick. I am friends/work with lets call her A. A brought a friend one night to go to the club to dance and everything. The friend lets call HB was drinking a little and was saying how much she liked me and how "cute" i was the whole night...

So i figured i had it easy... Nothing happened that night because of logistics, i wasn't even worried about getting the number either it was just a casual thing. But HB gets my number from A and we text a ton but nothing happens.

On several occasions during texting she would hint at how she is doing nothing this weekend or w/e and I obviously picked up on the hint and mentioned i was going to several diff places and she should come along. And she just dodged the invites every time.

So that made me think she was not interested anymore so i'd stop texting. and a day later shed reinitiate the chat. I'm so fucking confused is she into me or not? how do i get a meet up with her???

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She wants you to go round and fuck her!

From what you've said- tonnes of IOIs. She re-initiates chat and asked for your number in the first place.

so what do i do? It's not really good to confront her about it is it? If i ask again and the question gets avoided or something id feel like im losing value

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seems to me she doesnt want to go on any dates with u, she just wants to get straight to 'the business'.

I would be interested in hearing what has happened since you last posted.

While I admit i am just a AFC and a newbie, it sounds to me like she might just want to f' around. If you would be up for that sort of thing, next time she texts, just say.. idk..

how bout.. "what are you wearing? jk. anyways, i want to come over tonite." or something.

when you get there, play a little hard to get at first. tease. try to make it seem like she is the seducer. build the sexual tension, "omg, you look so good, get away from me, i cant stand it. dont forget to ramp up the kino.

If she talks about somethign cool in her room, jump on it and be like.. ahh no way. i love xyz. show me now.

more kino, seal the deal.

Maybe your place would be better. Just dont ask for things. for example, dont say, "do you want to come over????", just say "come over" or "i want you to come over".


I am pretty novice, so dont take anything I say too seriously

GL!

You've got this man. Come on =P, get the fuck out of your head, she wants cock.

In fact, most women are cock deprived, and she specifically is wanting your cock. That's why she is throwing congruency tests at you.

Basically, let her GAME you. Stop gaming her. She wants the dick more than you want the poon.

You can do this/Get out of your head/Let her game you
You can do this/Get out of your head/Let her game you
You can do this/Get out of your head/Let her game you
You can do this/Get out of your head/Let her game you
You can do this/Get out of your head/Let her game you
You can do this/Get out of your head/Let her game you

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Thanks EnderPUA for the input. Haven't been able to do much since my last post as i have had a small injury that has made me unable to go out for the last few days.

She pretty much texts me at the beginning of almost every day with some random bs... still plenty of iois, she even had a dream about me lol. But still nothing

For a little further in depth breakdown, she lives about an hour away and is 2 years younger than me living with her parents, so as soon as i can get her over to my place i think its pretty much done...


And how exactly do i let someone game me?

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1. Stop caring whether you fuck her or not.

2. Screen her if how much she wants to fuck you.

3. Sit back and relax.

4. Take her to your place with good plausible deniability, and slam her against a wall and finger fuck her, toss her onto your bed, fuck her, and make her breakfast the next day.

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1 and 3 = done already
4 = will do
2 = how do i screen her? Is this sorta like sexual framing the conversation?

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Screening is when you literally, screen her. Like you see how down to fuck she is.

Usually you do this by dropping SOI's, or really ridiculous shit and her response will gauge you on how close you are/how badly she wants to fuck you.

Real life example of what I did (I do not suggest you do this unless you can calibrate for it)

Me: Do u speak txt?
Her: Hey lol, yes i do
Me: Sing me lil wayne songs all night long
Me: Rodney King baby, beat it like a cop
Her: What? Your weird
Me: It sucks we aren't fucking right now
Her: That's so disrespectful, and no I will not have sex with you
Me: Rodney King baby, beat it like a cop
Her: lol yeah okay
Me: I bought a cactus yesterday
Her: Wtf? random, what kind is it.
Me: It's a baby cactus.
Her: ooookkkay
Me: Come over and check it out.
Her: i cant right now, friends are over
Her: how about tomorrow?
Me: I swear to god you better not be prickly.

Done deal. This happened about a 5 days ago, with a girl I went on a day 2 with.
Hope this illustrates it a bit better lol.

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Beschatten is 100% correct, let her game YOU. Delt with this before the only thing I found to work well when it happened to me was don't respond to her right away. Its her cute little way of flirting just let her go and try a little push pull with the response time.