Alright so I moved out to Cali bout 6 months ago and i met a girl... I dated her for about to weeks and she was great but I never F***ed her... I slept with her and we fooled around but never f-closed. I'm not gonna lie, I really liked this girl and she swore that she really liked me, but while everything is going great her Ex comes back crying to her and she says she still likes me but she winds up going back to him. Well anyway she hit me up on Facebook today and was wondering if I wanted to meet with her at a bar in town tomorrow night. I'm not going to be here much longer but I would still like to close things with her.

Does anyone have any thoughts on how I should be and act? I don't wanna blow another chance...

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Get horny for her and then fuck her.....simple...

shes come crawling bk to u neway so blatent IOI, just make sure u keep kino'in and when u get LMR just push thru until she says "fuck off" lol

It sounds like her IL was not high enough to begin with.

Anyway, tell her you have plans and that her boyfriend probably wouldn't appreciate her meeting guys at a bar. You have little time left there, spend it tying up loose ends and hanging out with your close friends and/or family. Don't start wagging your tail just because this girl wants to hang out again. You are not going to drop everything just because she comes calling...right?

If anything, have her come to your place, make her work for it.

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I was going to suggest something along the lines of what SinfUl said. Make her come to you. Say you were thinking about going to a different bar. Tell her you already had plans to meet up with friends at a different bar, and if she meets you there, great. Don't drop everything at her call.

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This is good advice. Change the venue and make her work for you like Sinful said. If she shows the interest, then just be cool (but don't play the ultra super retardedly cool guy because girls find that boring) and have a good time while building sexual tension with flirting and sexual innuendo thrown into the conversation. Build up some kino and then pull the trigger, don't wait around for permission, if you see the opening just take her back to your place and have sex; that's probably exactly why she showed up again.

Alright I can do that... Thanks for the advice guys... I'll let you know how it turns out...